ON MONOGAMY
VI. ON MONOGAMY.[1]
[TRANSLATED BY THE REV. S. THELWALL.]
CHAP. I.--DIFFERENT VIEWS IN REGARD TO MARRIAGE HELD BY HERETICS, PSYCHIC, AND
SPIRITUALISTS.
HERETICS do away with marriages; Psychics accumulate them. The former many
not even once; the latter not only once. What dost thou, Law of the Creator?
Between alien eunuchs and thine own grooms, thou complainest as much of the
over-obedience of thine own household as of the contempt of strangers. They who
abuse thee, do thee equal hurt with them who use thee not. In fact, neither is
such continence laudable because it is heretical, nor such licence defensible
because it is psychical. The former is blasphemous, the latter wanton; the former
destroys the God of marriages, the latter puts Him to the blush. Among us,
however, whom the recognition of spiritual gifts entitles to be deservedly called
Spiritual, continence is as religious as licence is modest; since both the one
and the other are in harmony with the Creator. Continence honours the law of
marriage, licence tempers it; the former is not forced, the latter is regulated;
the former recognises the power of free choice, the latter recognises a limit. We
admit one marriage, just as we do one God. The law of marriage reaps an
accession of honour where it is associated with shamefastness. But to the Psychics,
since they receive not the Spirit, the things which are the Spirit's are not
pleasing. Thus, so long as the things which are the Spirit's please them not, the
things which are of the flesh will please, as being the contraries of the
Spirit. "The flesh," saith (the apostle), "lusteth against the Spirit, and the
Spirit against the flesh."[2] But what will the flesh "lust" after, except what is
more of the flesh? For which reason withal, in. the beginning, it became
estranged from the Spirit. "My Spirit," saith (God), "shall not permanently abide in
these men eternally,[3] for that they are flesh."[4]
CHAP. II.--THE SPIRITUALISTS VINDICATED FROM THE CHARGE OF NOVELTY.
And so they upbraid the discipline of monogamy with being a heresy; nor is
there any other cause whence they find themselves compelled to deny the
Paraclete more than the fact that they esteem Him to be the institutor of a novel
discipline, and a discipline which they find most harsh: so that this is already
the first ground on which we must join issue in a general handling (of the
subject), whether there is room for maintaining that the Paraclete has taught any
such thing as can either be charged with novelty, in opposition to catholic
tradition,[5] or with burdensomeness, in opposition to the "light burden"[6] of the
Lord.
Now concerning each point the Lord Himself has pronounced. For in saying,
"I still have many things to say unto you, but ye are not yet able to bear
them: when the Holy Spirit shall be come, He will lead you into all truth,"[7] He
sufficiently, of course, sets before us that He will bring such (teachings) as
may be esteemed alike novel, as having never before been published, and finally
burdensome, as if that were the reason why they were not published. "It
follows," you say, "that by this line of argument, anything you please which is novel
and burdensome may be ascribed to the Paraclete, even if it have come from the
adversary spirit." No, of course. For the adversary spirit would be apparent
from the diversity of his preaching, beginning by adulterating the rule of faith,
and so (going on to) adulterating the order of discipline; because the
corruption of that which holds the first grade, (that is, of faith, which is prior to
discipline,) comes first. A man must of necessity hold heretical views of God
first, and then of His institution. But the Paraclete, having many things to
teach fully which the Lord deferred till He came, (according to the
pre-definition,) will begin by bearing emphatic witness to Christ, (as being) such as we
believe (Him to be), together with the whole order of God the Creator, and will
glorify Him,[1] and will "bring to remembrance" concerning Him. And when He has
thus been recognised (as the promised Comforter), on the ground of the cardinal
rule, He will reveal those "many things" which appertain to disciplines; while
the integrity of His preaching commands credit for these (revelations), albeit
they be "novel," inasmuch as they are. now in course of revelation, albeit they
be "burdensome," inasmuch as not even now are they found bearable:
(revelations), however, of none other Christ than (the One) who said that He had withal
"other many things" which were to be fully taught by the Paraclete, no less
burdensome to men of our own day than to them, by whom they were then "not yet able
to be borne."
CHAP. III.--THE QUESTION OF NOVELTY FURTHER CONSIDERED IN CONNECTION WITH THE
WORDS OF THE LORD AND HIS APOSTLES.
But (as for the question) whether monogamy be "burdensome," let the still
shameless "infirmity of the flesh" look to that: let us meantime come to an
agreement as to whether it be "novel." This (even) broader assertion we make: that
even if the Paraclete had in this our day definitely prescribed a virginity or
continence total and absolute, so as not to permit the heat of the flesh to
foam itself down even in single marriage, even thus He would seem to be
introducing nothing of "novelty;" seeing that the Lord Himself opens "the kingdoms of
the heavens" to "eunuchs,"[2] as being Himself, withal, a virgin; to whom
looking, the apostle also--himself too for this reason abstinent--gives the preference
to continence.[3] ("Yes"), you say, "but saving the law of marriage." Saving
it, plainly, and we will see under what limitations; nevertheless already
destroying it, in so far as he gives the preference to continence. "Good," he says,
"(it is) for a man not to have contact with a woman." It follows that it is evil
to have contact with her; for nothing is contrary to good except evil. And
accordingly (he says), "It remains, that both they who have wives so be as if they
have not,"[4] that it may be the more binding on them who have not to abstain
from having them. He renders reasons, likewise, for so advising: that the
unmarried think about God, but the married about how, in (their) marriage, each may
please his (partner).[5] And I may contend, that what is permitted is not
absolutely good.[6] For what is absolutely good is not permitted, but needs no
asking to make it lawful. Permission has its cause sometimes even in necessity.
Finally, in this case, there is no volition on the part of him who permits
marriage. For his volition points another way. "I will," he says, "that you all so be
as I too (am)."[7] And when he shows that (so to abide) is "better," what, pray,
does he demonstrate himself to "will," but what he has premised is "better?"
And thus, if he permits something other than what he has "willed"--permitted not
voluntarily, but of necessity--he shows that what he has unwillingly granted
as an indulgence is not absolutely good. Finally, when he says, "Better it is to
marry than to burn," what sort of good must that be understood to be which is
better than a penalty? which cannot seem "better" except when compared to a
thing very bad? "Good" is that which keeps this name per se; without comparison--I
say not with an evil, but even--with some other good: so that, even if it be
compared to and overshadowed by another good, it nevertheless remains in
(possession of) the name of good. If, on the other hand, comparison with evil is the
mean which obliges it to be called good; it is not so much "good" as a species
of inferior evil, which, when obscured by a higher evil, is driven to the name
of good. Take away, in Short, the condition, so as not to say, "Better it is to
marry than to burn;" and I question whether you will have the hardihood to say,
"Better (it is) to marry," not adding than what it is better. This done, then,
it becomes not" better;" and while not "better," not "good" either, the
condition being taken away which, while making it "better" than another thing, in
that sense obliges it to be considered "good." Better it is to lose one eye than
two. If, however, you withdraw from the comparison of either evil, it will not
be better to have one eye, because it is not even good.
What, now, if he accommodatingly grants all indulgence to marry on the
ground of his own (that is, of human) sense, out of the necessity which we have
mentioned, inasmuch as "better it is to marry than to burn?" In fact, when he
turns to the second case, by saying, "But to the married I officially
announce--not I, but the Lord"--he shows that those things which he had said above had not
been (the dictates) of the Lord's authority, but of human judgment. When,
however, he turns their minds back to continence, ("But I will you all so to be,")
"I think, moreover," he says, "I too have the Spirit of God;" in order that, if
he had granted any indulgence out of necessity, that, by the Holy Spirit's
authority, he might recall. But John, too, when advising us that "we ought so to
walk as the Lord withal did,"[1] of course admonished us to walk as well in
accordance with sanctity of the flesh (as in accordance with His example in other
respects). Accordingly he says more manifestly: "And every (man) who hath this
hope in Him maketh himself chaste, just as Himself withal is chaste."[2] For
elsewhere, again, (we read): "Be ye holy, just as He withal was holy "[3]--in the
flesh, namely. For of the Spirit he would not have said (that), inasmuch as the
Spirit is without any external influence recognised as "holy," nor does He wait
to be admonished to sanctity, which is His proper nature. But the flesh is
taught sanctity; and that withal, in Christ, was holy.
Therefore, if all these (considerations) obliterate the licence of
marrying, whether we look into the condition on which the licence is granted, or the
preference of continence which is imposed. why, after the apostles, could not
the same Spirit, supervening for the purpose of conducting disciplehood[4] into
"all truth" through the gradations of the times (according to what the preacher
says, "A time to everything"[5]), impose by this time a final bridle upon the
flesh, no longer obliquely calling us away from marriage, but openly; since now
more (than ever) "the time is become wound up,"[6]--about 160 years having
elapsed since then? Would you not spontaneously ponder (thus) in your own mind:
"This discipline is old, shown beforehand, even at that early date, in the Lord's
flesh and will, (and) successively thereafter in both the counsels and the
examples of His apostles? Of old we were destined to this sanctity. Nothing of
novelty is the Paraclete introducing. What He premonished, He is (now) definitively
appointing; what He deferred, He is (now) exacting." And presently, by
revolving these thoughts, you will easily persuade yourself that it was much more
competent to the Paraclete to preach unity of marriage, who could withal have
preached its annulling; and that it is more credible that He should have tempered
what it would have become Him even to have abolished, if you understand what
Christ's "will" is. Herein also you ought to recognise the Paraclete in His
character of Comforter, in that He excuses your infirmity[7] from (the stringency of)
an absolute continence.
CHAP. IV.--WAIVING ALLUSION TO THE PARACLETE, TERTULLIAN COMES TO THE
CONSIDERATION OF THE ANCIENT SCRIPTURES, AND THEIR TESTIMONY ON THE SUBJECT IN HAND.
Waiving, now, the mention of the Paraclete, as of some authority of our
own, evolve we the common instruments of the primitive Scriptures. This very
thing is demonstrable by us: that the rule of monogamy is neither novel nor
strange, nay rather, is both ancient, and proper to Christians; so that you may be
sensible that the Paraclete is rather its restitutor than institutor. As for what
pertains to antiquity, what more ancient formal type can be brought forward,
than the very original fount of the human race? One female did God fashion for
the male, culling one rib of his, and (of course) (one) out of a plurality. But,
moreover, in the introductory speech which preceded the work itself, He said,
"It is not good for the man that he be alone; let us make an help-meet for him."
For He would have said "helpers" if He had destined him to have more wives
(than one). He added, too, a law concerning the future; if, that is, (the words)
"And two shall be (made) into one flesh"--not three, nor more; else they would
be no more "two" if (there were) more--were prophetically uttered. The law stood
(firm). In short, the unity of marriage lasted to the very end in the case of
the authors of our race; not because there were no other women, but because the
reason why there were none was that the first-fruits of the race might not be
contaminated by a double marriage. Otherwise, had God (so) willed, there could
withal have been (others); at all events, he might have taken from the
abundance of his own daughters--having no less an Eve (taken) out of his own bones and
flesh--if piety had allowed it to be done. But where the first crime (is
found)homicide, inaugurated in fratricide--no crime was so worthy of the second place
as a double marriage. For it makes no difference whether a man have had two
wives singly, or whether individuals (taken) at the same time have made two. The
number of (the individuals) conjoined and separate is the same. Still, God's
institution, after once for all suffering violence through Lamech, remained firm
to the very end of that race. Second Lamech there arose none, in the way of
being husband to two wives. What Scripture does not note, it denies. Other
iniquities provoke the deluge: (iniquities) once for all avenged, whatever was their
nature; not, however, "seventy-seven times,"[1] which (is the vengeance which)
double marriages have deserved.
But again: the reformation of the second human race is traced from
monogamy as its mother. Once more, "two (joined) into one flesh" undertake (the duty
of) "growing and multiplying,"--Noah, (namely), and his wife, and their sons, in
single marriage.[2] Even in the very animals monogamy is recognised, for fear
that even beasts should be born of adultery. "Out of all beasts," said
(God),[3] "out of all flesh, two shall thou lead into the ark, that they may live with
thee, male and female: they shall be (taken) from all flying animals according
to (their) kind, and from all creepers of the earth according to their kind;
two out of all shall enter unto thee, male and female." In the same formula, too,
He .orders sets of sevens, made up of pairs, to be gathered to him, consisting
of male and female--one male and one female[4] What more shall I say? Even
unclean birds were not allowed to enter with two females each.
CHAP. V.--CONNECTION OF THESE PRIMEVAL TESTIMONIES WITH CHRIST.
Thus far for the testimony of things primordial, and the sanction of our
origin, and the prejudgment of the divine institution, which of course is a law,
not (merely) a memorial inasmuch as, if it was." so done from the beginning,"
we find ourselves directed to the beginning by Christ: just as, in the question
of divorce, by saying that that had been permitted by Moses on account of
their hard-heartedness but from the beginning it had not been so, He doubtless
recalls to "the beginning" the (law of) the individuity of marriage. And
accordingly, those whom God "from the beginning" conjoined, "two into one flesh," man
shall not at the present day separate.[5] The apostle, too, writing to the
Ephesians, says that God "had proposed in Himself, at the dispensation of the
fulfilment of the times, to recall to the head" (that is, to the beginning) "things
universal in Christ, which are above the heavens and above the earth in Him."[6]
So, too, the two letters of Greece, the first and the last, the Lord assumes to
Himself, as figures of the beginning and end! which concur in Himself: so that,
just as Alpha rolls on till it reaches Omega, and again Omega rolls back till
it reaches Alpha, in the same way He might show that in Himself is both the
downward course of the beginning on to the end, and the backward course of the end
up to the beginning; so that every economy, ending in Him through whom it
began,--through the Word of God, that is, who was made flesh,[7]--may have an end
correspondent to its beginning. And so truly in Christ are all things recalled
to "the beginning," that even faith returns from circumcision to the integrity
of that (original) flesh, as "it was from the beginning; and freedom of meats
and abstinence from blood alone, as "it was from the beginning;" and the
individuality of marriage, as "it was from the beginning;" and the restriction of
divorce, which was not "from the beginning;" and lastly, the whole man into
Paradise, where he was "from the beginning." Why, then, ought He not to restore Adam
thither at least as a monogamist, who cannot present him in so entire perfection
as he was when dismissed thence? Accordingly, so far as pertains to the
restitution of the beginning, the logic both of the dispensation you live under, and
of your hope, exact this from you, that what was "from the beginning" (should
be) in accordance with "the beginning;" Which (beginning) you find counted in
Adam, and recounted in Noah. Make your election, in which of the twain you account
your "beginning." In both, the censorial power of monogamy claims you for
itself. But again: if the beginning passes on to the end (as Alpha to Omega), as
the end passes back to the beginning (as Omega to Alpha), and thus our origin is
transferred to Christ, the animal to the spiritual--inasmuch as "(that was) not
first which is spiritual, but (that) which (is) animal; then what (is)
spiritual,"[8]--let us, in like manner (as before), see whether you owe this very
(same) thing to this second origin also: whether the last Adam also meet you in the
selfsame form as the first; since the last Adam (that is, Christ) was entirely
unwedded, as was even the first Adam before his exile. But, presenting to your
weakness the gift of the example of His own flesh, the more perfect Adam--that
is, Christ, more perfect on this account as well (as on others), that He was
more entirely pure--stands before you, if you are willing (to copy Him), as a
voluntary celibate in the flesh. If, however, you are unequal (to that
perfection), He stands before you a monogamist in spirit, having one Church as His
spouse, according to the figure of Adam and of Eve, which (figure) the apostle
interprets of that great sacrament of Christ and the Church, (teaching that), through
the spiritual, it was analogous to the carnal monogamy. You see, therefore,
after what manner, renewing your origin even in Christ, you cannot trace down
that (origin) without the profession of monogamy; unless, (that is), you be in
flesh what He is in spirit; albeit withal, what He was in flesh, you equally ought
to have been.
CHAP. VI.--THE CASE OF ABRAHAM, AND ITS BEARING ON THE PRESENT QUESTION.
But let us proceed with our inquiry into some eminent chief fathers of our
origin: for there are some to whom our monogamist parents Adam and Noah are
not pleasing, nor perhaps Christ either. To Abraham, in fine, they appeal;
prohibited though they are to acknowledge any other father than God.[1] Grant, now,
that Abraham is our father; grant, too, that Paul is. "In the Gospel," says he,
"I have begotten you."[2] Show yourself a son even of Abraham. For your origin
in him, you must know, iS not referable to every period of his life: there is a
definite time at which he is your father. For if" faith" is the source whence
we are reckoned to Abraham as his "sons" (as the apostle teaches, saying to the
Galatians, "You know, consequently, that (they) who are of faith, these are
sons of Abraham"[3]), when did Abraham "believe God and it was accounted to him
for righteousness?" I suppose when still in monogamy, since (he was) not yet in
circumcision. But if afterwards. he changed to either (opposite)--to digamy
through cohabitation with his handmaid, and to circumcision through the seal of
the testament--you cannot acknowledge him as your father except at that time when
he "believed God," if it is true that it is according to faith that you are
his son, not according to flesh. Else, if it be the later Abraham whom you follow
as your father--that is, the digamist (Abraham)--receive him withal in his
circumcision. If you reject his circumcision, it follows that you will refuse his
digamy too. Two characters of his mutually diverse in two several ways, you
will not be able to blend. His digamy began with circumcision, his monogamy with
uncircumcision.[4] You receive digamy; admit circumcision too. You retain
uncircumcision; you are bound to monogamy too. Moreover, so true is it that it is of
the monogamist Abraham that you are the son, just as of the uncircumcised, that
if you be circumcised you immediately cease to be his son, inasmuch as you
will not be "of faith," but of the seal of a faith which had been justified in
uncircumcision. You bare the apostle: learn (of him), together with the
Galatians.[5] In like manner, too, if you have involved yourself in digamy, you are not
the son of that Abraham whose "faith" preceded in monogamy. For albeit it is
subsequently that he is called "a father of many nations,"[6] still it is of those
(nations) who, as the fruit of the "faith" which precedes digamy, had to be
accounted "sons of Abraham."[7]
Thenceforward let matters see to themselves. Figures are one thing; laws
another. Images are one thing; statutes another. Images pass away when
fulfilled: statutes remain permanently to be fulfilled. Images prophesy: statutes
govern. What that digamy of Abraham portends, the same apostle fully teaches,[8] the
interpreter of each testament, just as he likewise lays it down that our "seed"
is called in Isaac.[9] If you are "of the free woman," and belong to Isaac,
he, at all events, maintained unity of marriage to the last.
These accordingly, I suppose, are they in whom my origin is counted. All
others I ignore. And if I glance around at their examples--(examples) of some
David heaping up marriages for himself even through sanguinary means, of some
Solomon rich in wives as well as in other riches--you are bidden to "follow the
better things;"[10] and you have withal Joseph but once wedded, and on this score
I venture to say better than his father; you have Moses, the intimate
eye-witness of God;[11] you have Aaron the chief priest. The second Moses, also, of the
second People, who led our representatives into the (possession of) the
promise of God, in whom the Name (of Jesus) was first inaugurated, was no digamist.
CHAP. VII.--FROM PATRIARCHAL, TERTULLIAN COMES TO LEGAL, PRECEDENTS.
After the ancient examples of the patriarchs, let us equally pass on to
the ancient documents of the legal Scriptures, that we may treat in order of all
our canon. And since there are some who sometimes assert that they have nothing
to do with the law (which Christ has not dissolved, but fulfilled),[12]
sometimes catch at such parts of the law as they choose; plainly do we too assert
that the law has deceased in this sense, that its burdens--according to the
sentence of the apostles--which not even the fathers were able to sustain,[13] have
wholly ceased: such (parts), however. as relate to righteousness not only
permanently remain reserved, but even amplified; in order, to be sure, that our
righteousness may be able to redound above the righteousness of the scribes and of
the Pharisees.[1] If "righteousness" must, of course chastity must too. If,
then, forasmuch as there is in the law a precept that a man is to take in marriage
the wife of his brother if he have died without children,[2] for the purpose of
raising up seed to his brother; and this may happen repeatedly to the same
person, according to that crafty question of the Sadducees;[3] men for that reason
think that frequency of marriage is permitted in other cases as well: it will
be their duty to understand first the reason of the precept itself; and thus
they will come to know that that reason, now ceasing, is among those parts of the
law which have been cancelled. Necessary it was that there should be a
succession to the marriage of a brother if he died childless: first, because that
ancient benediction, "Grow and multiply,"[4] had still to run its course; secondly,
because the sins of the fathers used to be exacted even from the sons;[5]
thirdly, because eunuchs and barren persons used to be regarded as ignominious. And
thus, for fear that such as had died childless, not from natural inability,
but from being prematurely overtaken by death, should be judged equally accursed
(with the other class); for this reason a vicarious and (so to say) posthumous
offspring used to be supplied them. But (now), when the "extremity of the
times" has cancelled (the command) "Grow and multiply," since the apostle
superinduces (another command), "It remaineth, that both they who have wives so be as if
they have not," because "the time is compressed;[6] and "the sour grape" chewed
by "the fathers" has ceased "to set the sons' teeth on edge,"[7] for, "each
one shall die in his own sin;" and "eunuchs" not only have lost ignominy, but
have even deserved grace, being invited into "the kingdoms of the heavens:"[8] the
law of succeeding to the wife of a brother being buried, its contrary has
obtained--that of not succeeding to the wife of a brother. And thus, as we have
said before, what has ceased to be valid, on the cessation of its reason, cannot
furnish a ground of argument to another. Therefore a wife, when her husband is
dead, will not marry; for if she marry, she will of course be marrying (his)
brother: for "all we are brethren."[9] Again, the woman, if intending to marry,
has to marry "in the Lord;"[10] that is, not to an heathen, but to a brother,
inasmuch as even the ancient law forbids" marriage with members of another tribe.
Since, moreover, even in Leviticus there is a caution, "Whoever shall have
taken (his) brother's wife, (it) is uncleanness--turpitude; without children shall
(he) die;"[12] beyond doubt, while the man is prohibited from marrying a second
time, the woman is prohibited too, having no one to marry except a brother. In
what way, then, an agreement shall be established between the apostle and the
Law (which he is not impugning in its entirety), shall be shown when we shall
have come to his own epistle. Meantime, so far as pertains to the law, the lines
of argument drawn from it are more suitable for us (than for our opponents).
In short, the same (law) prohibits priests from marrying a second time. The
daughter also of a priest it bids, if widowed or repudiated, if she have had no
seed, to return into her father's home and be nourished from his bread.[13] The
reason why (it is said), "If she have had no seed," is not that if she have she
may marry again--for how much more will she abstain from marrying if she have
sons?--but that, if she have, she may be "nourished" by her son rather than by
her father; in order that the son, too, may carry out the precept of God, "Honour
father and mother."[14] Us, moreover, Jesus, the Father's Highest and Great
Priest,[15] clothing us from His own store[16]--inasmuch as they "who are
baptized in Christ[17] have put on Christ"--has made "priests to God His Father,"[18]
according to John. For the reason why He recalls that young man who was
hastening to his father's obsequies,[19] is that He may show that we are called
priests by Him; (priests) whom the Law used to forbid to be present at the sepulture
of parents:[20] "Over every dead soul," it says, "the priest shall not enter,
and over his own father and over his own mother he shall not be contaminated."
"Does it follow that we too are bound to observe this prohibition?" No, of
course. For our one Father, God, lives, and our mother, the Church; and neither are
we dead who live to God, nor do we bury our dead, inasmuch as they too are
living in Christ. At all events, priests we are called by Christ; debtors to
monogamy, in accordance with the pristine Law of God, which prophesied at that time
of us in its own priests.
CHAP. VIII.--FROM THE LAW TERTULLIAN COMES TO THE GOSPEL. HE BEGINS WITH
EXAMPLES BEFORE PROCEEDING TO DOGMAS.
Turning now to the law, which is properly ours--that is, to the Gospel--by
what kind of examples are we met, until we come to definite dogmas? Behold,
there immediately present themselves to us, on the threshold as it were, the two
priestesses of Christian sanctity, Monogamy and Continence: one modest, in
Zechariah the priest; one absolute, in John the forerunner: one appeasing God; one
preaching Christ: one proclaiming a perfect priest; one exhibiting "more than a
prophet,"[1]--him, namely, who has not only preached or personally pointed
out, but even baptized Christ. For who was more worthily to perform the initiatory
rite on the body of the Lord, than flesh similar in kind to that which
conceived and gave birth to that (body)? And indeed it was a virgin, about to marry
once for all after her delivery, who gave birth to Christ, in order that each
title of sanctity might be fulfilled in Christ's parentage, by means of a mother
who was both virgin, and wife of one husband. Again, when He is presented as an
infant in the temple, who is it who receives Him into his hands? who is the
first to recognise Him in spirit? A man "just and circumspect," and of course no
digamist, (which is plain) even (from this consideration), lest (otherwise)
Christ should presently be more worthily preached by a woman, an aged widow, and
"the wife of one man;" who, living devoted to the temple, was (already) giving in
her own person a sufficient token what sort of persons ought to be the
adherents to the spiritual temple,--that is, the Church. Such eye-witnesses the Lord
in infancy found; no different ones had He in adult age. Peter alone do I
find--through (the mention of) his "mother-in-law"[2],--to have been married.
Monogamist I am led to presume him by consideration of the Church, which, built upon
him,[3] was destined to appoint every grade of her Order from monogamists. The
rest, while I do not find them married, I must of necessity understand to have
been either eunuchs or continent. Nor indeed, if, among the Greeks, in
accordance with the carelessness of custom, women and wives are classed under a common
name--however, there is a name proper to wives--shall we therefore so interpret
Paul as if he demonstrates the apostles to have had wives?[4] For if he were
disputing about marriages, as he does in the sequel, where the apostle could
better have named some particular example, it would appear right for him to say,
"For have we not the power of leading about wives, like the other apostles and
Cephas?" But when he subjoins those (expressions)which show his abstinence from
(insisting on) the supply of maintenance, saying, "For have we not the power of
eating and drinking?" he does not demonstrate that "wives" were led about by
the apostles, whom even such as have not still have the power of eating and
drinking; but simply "women," who used to minister to them in the stone way (as they
did) when accompanying the Lord.[5] But further, if Christ reproves the
scribes and Pharisees, sitting in the official chair of Moses, but not doing what
they taught,[6] what kind of (supposition). is it that He Himself withal should
set upon His own official chair men who were mindful rather to enjoin--(but) not
likewise to practise--sanctity of the flesh, which (sanctity) He had in all
ways recommended to their teaching and practising?--first by His own example, then
by all other arguments; while He tells (them) that "the kingdom of heavens" is
"children's;"[7] while He associates with these (children) others who, after
marriage, remained (or became)virgins;"[8] while He calls (them) to (copy) the
simplicity of the dove, a bird not merely innocuous, but modest too, and whereof
one male knows one female; while He denies the Samaritan woman's (partner to
be) a husband, that He may show that manifold husbandry is adultery;[9] while,
in the revelation of His own glory, He prefers, from among so many saints and
prophets, to have with him Moses and Elias"--the one a monogamist, the other a
voluntary celibate (for Elias was nothing else than John, who came "in the power
and spirit of Elias"[11]); while that "man gluttonous and toping," the
"frequenter of luncheons and suppers, in the company of publicans and sinners,"[12]
sups once for all at a single marriage,[13] though, of course, many were marrying
(around Him); for He willed to attend (marriages) only so often as (He willed)
them to be.
CHAP. IX.--FROM EXAMPLES TERTULLIAN PASSES TO DIRECT DOGMATIC TEACHINGS. HE
BEGINS WITH THE LORD'S TEACHING.
But grant that these argumentations may be thought to be forced and
founded on conjectures, if no dogmatic teachings have stood parallel with them which
the Lord uttered in treating of divorce, which, permitted formerly, He now
prohibits, first because "from the beginning it was not so," like plurality of
marriage; secondly, because "What God hath conjoined, man shall not
separate,"[1]--for fear, namely, that he contravene the Lord: for He alone shall "separate"
who has "conjoined" (separate, moreover, not through the harshness of divorce,
which (harshness) He censures and restrains, but through the debt of death) if,
indeed, "one of two sparrows falleth not on the ground without the Father's
will."[2] Therefore if those whom God has conjoined man shall not separate by
divorce, it is equally congruous that those whom God has separated by death man is
not to conjoin by marriage; the joining of the separation will be just as
contrary to God's will as would have been the separation of the conjunction.
So far as regards the non-destruction of the will of God, and the
restruction of the law of "the beginning." But another reason, too, conspires; nay, not
another, but (one)which imposed the law of "the beginning," and moved the will
of God to prohibit divorce: the fact that (he)who shall have dismissed his
wife, except on the ground of adultery, makes her commit adultery; and (he) who
shall have married a (woman) dismissed by her husband, of course commits
adultery.[3] A divorced woman cannot even marry legitimately; and if she commit any
such act without the name of marriage, does it not fall under the category of
adultery, in that adultery is crime in the way of marriage? Such is God's verdict,
within straiter limits than men's, that universally, whether through marriage
or promiscuously, the admission of a second man (to intercourse) is pronounced
adultery by Him. For let us see what marriage is in the eye of God; and thus we
shall learn what adultery equally is. Marriage is (this): when God joins "two
into one flesh;" or else, finding (them already) joined in the same flesh, has
given His seal to the conjunction. Adultery is (this): when, the two having
been--in whatsoever way--disjoined, other--nay, rather alien--flesh is mingled
(with either): flesh concerning which it cannot be affirmed, "This is flesh out of
my flesh, and this bone out of my bones."[4] For this, once for all done and
pronounced, as from the beginning, so now too, cannot apply to "other" flesh.
Accordingly, it will be without cause that you will say that God wills not a
divorced woman to be joined to another man "while her husband liveth," as if He do
will it "when he is dead;"[5] whereas if she is not bound to him when dead, no
more is she when living. "Alike when divorce dissevers marriage as when death
does, she will not be bound to him by whom the binding medium has been broken
off." To whom, then, will she be bound? In the eye of God, it matters nought
whether she marry during her life or after his death. For it is not against him that
she sins, but against herself. "Any sin which a man may have committed is
external to the body; but ] (he) who commits adultery sins against his own body."
But--as we have previously laid down above--whoever shall intermingle with
himself "other" flesh, over and above that pristine flesh which God either conjoined
into two or else found (already) conjoined, commits adultery. And the reason
why He has abolished divorce, which "was not from the beginning," is, that He
may strengthen that which "was from the beginning"--the permanent conjunction,
(namely), of "two into one flesh:" for fear that necessity or opportunity for a
third union of flesh may make an irruption (into His dominion); permitting
divorce to no cause but one--if, (that is), the (evil) against which precaution is
taken chance to have occurred beforehand. So true, moreover, is it that divorce
"was not from the beginning," that among the Romans it is not till after the
six hundredth year from the building of the city that this kind of
"hard-heartedness"[6] is set down as having been committed. But they indulge in promiscuous
adulteries, even without divorcing (their partners): to us, even if we do
divorce them, even marriage will not be lawful.
CHAP. X.--ST. PAUL'S TEACHING ON THE SUBJECT.
From this point I see that we are challenged by an appeal to the apostle;
for the more easy apprehension of whose meaning we must all the more earnestly
inculcate (the assertion), that a woman is more bound when her husband is dead
not to admit (to marriage) another husband. For let us reflect that divorce
either is caused by discord, or else causes discord; whereas death is an event
resulting from the law of God, not from an offence of man; and that it is a debt
which all owe, even the unmarried. Therefore, if a divorced woman, who has been
separated (from her husband)in soul as well as body, through discord, anger,
hatred, and the causes of these--injury, or contumely, or whatsoever cause of
complaint--is bound to a personal enemy, not to say a husband, how much more will
one who, neither by her own nor her husband's fault, but by an event resulting
from the Lord's law, has been--not separated from, but left behind by--her
consort, be his, even when dead, to whom, even when dead, she owes (the debt of)
concord? From him from whom she has heard no (word of) divorce she does not turn
away; with him she is, to whom she has written no (document of) divorce; him
whom she was unwilling to have lost, she retains. She has within her the licence
of the mind, which represents to a man, in imaginary enjoyment, all things
which he has not. In short, I ask the woman herself, "Tell me, sister, have you
sent your husband before you (to his rest) in peace?" What will she answer? (Will
she say), "In discord?" In that case she is the more bound to him with whom she
has a cause (to plead) at the bar of God. She who is bound (to another) has
not departed (from him). But (will she say), "In peace?" In that case, she must
necessarily persevere in that (peace) with him whom she will no longer have the
power to divorce; not that she would, even if she had been able to divorce him,
have been marriageable. Indeed, she prays for his soul, and requests
refreshment for him meanwhile, and fellowship (with him) in the first resurrection; and
she offers (her sacrifice) on the anniversaries of his falling asleep. For,
unless she does these deeds, she has in the true sense divorced him, so far as in
her lies; and indeed the more iniquitously--inasmuch as (she did it) as far as
was in her power--because she had no power (to do it); and with the more
indignity, inasmuch as it is with more indignity if (her reason for doing it is)
because he did not deserve it. Or else shall we, pray, cease to be after death,
according to (the teaching of) some Epicurus, and not according to (that of)
Christ? But if we believe the resurrection of the dead, of course we shall be bound
to them with whom we are destined to rise, to render an account the one of the
other. "But if 'in that age they will neither marry nor be given in marriage,
but will be equal to angels,'[1] is not the fact that there will be no
restitution of the conjugal relation a reason why we shall not be bound to our departed
consorts?" Nay, but the more shall we be bound (to them), because we are
destined to a better estate--destined (as we are) to rise to a spiritual consortship,
to recognise as well our own selves as them who are ours. Else how shall we
sing thanks to God to eternity, if there shall remain in us no sense and memory
of this debt; if we shall be reformed in substance, not in consciousness?
Consequently, we who shall be with God shall be together; since we shall all be with
the one God--albeit the wages be various,[2] albeit there be "many mansions",
in the house of the same Father[3] having laboured for the "one penny "[4] of
the self-same hire, that is, of eternal life; in which (eternal life) God will
still less separate them whom He has conjoined, than in this lesser life He
forbids them to be separated.
Since this is so, how will a woman have room for another husband, who is,
even to futurity, in the possession of her own? (Moreover, we speak to each
sex, even if our discourse address itself but to the one; inasmuch as one
discipline is incumbent[on both].) She will have one in spirit, one in flesh. This will
be adultery, the conscious affection of one woman for two men. If the one has
been disjoined from her flesh, but remains in her heart--in that place where
even cogitation without carnal contact achieves beforehand both adultery by
concupiscence, and matrimony by volition--he is to this hour her husband, possessing
the very thing which is the mean whereby he became so--her mind, namely, in
which withal, if another shall find a habitation, this will be a crime. Besides,
excluded he Is not, if he has withdrawn from viler carnal commerce. A more
honourable husband is he, in proportion as he is become more pure.
CHAP. XI.--FURTHER REMARKS UPON ST. PAUL'S TEACHING.
Grant, now, that you marry "in the Lord," in accordance with the law and
the apostle--if, notwithstanding, you care even about this--with what face do
you request (the solemnizing of) a matrimony which is unlawful to those of whom
you request it; of a monogamist bishop, of presbyters and deacons bound by the
same solemn engagement, of widows whose Order you have in your own person
refused? And they, plainly, will give husbands and wives as they would morsels of
bread; for this is their rendering of "To every one who asketh thee thou shalt
give!"[5] And they will join you together in a virgin church, the one betrothed of
the one Christ! And you will pray for your husbands, the new and the old. Make
your election, to which of the twain you will play the adulteress. I think, to
both. But if you have any wisdom, be silent on behalf of the dead one. Let
your silence be to him a divorce, already endorsed in the dotal gifts of another.
In this way you will earn the new husband's favour, if you forget the old. You
ought to take more pains to please him for whose sake you have not preferred to
please God! Such (conduct) the Psychics will have it the apostle approved, or
else totally failed to think about, when he wrote: "The woman is bound for such
length of time as her husband liveth; but if he shall have died, she is free;
whom she will let her marry, only in the Lord."[1] For it is out of this
passage that they draw their defence of the licence of second marriage; nay, even of
(marriages) to any amount, if of second (marriage): for that which has ceased
to be once .for all, is open to any and every number. But the sense in which the
apostle did write will be apparent, if first an agreement be come to that he
did not write it in the sense of which the Psychics avail themselves. Such an
agreement, moreover, will be come to if one first recall to mind those (passages)
which are diverse from the passage in question, when tried by the standard of
doctrine, of volition, and of Paul's own discipline. For, if he permits second
nuptials, which were not "from the beginning," how does he affirm that all
things are being recollected to the beginning in Christ?[2] If he wills us to
iterate conjugal connections, how does he maintain that "our seed is called" in the
but once married Isaac as its author? How does he make monogamy the base of his
disposition of the whole Ecclesiastical Order, if this rule does not
antecedently hold good in the case of laics, from whose ranks the Ecclesiastical Order
proceeds? [3] How does he call away from the enjoyment of marriage such as are
still in the married position, saying that "the time is wound up," if he calls
back again into marriage such as through death had escaped from marriage? If
these (passages) are diverse from that one about which the present question is, it
will be agreed (as we have said) that he did not write in that sense .of which
the Psychics avail themselves; inasmuch as it is easier (of belief) that that
one passage should have some explanation agreeable with the others, than that
an apostle should seem to have taught (principles) mutually diverse. That
explanation we shall be able to discover in the subject-matter itself. What was the
subject-matter which led the apostle to write such (words)? The inexperience of
a new and just rising Church, which he was rearing, to wit, "with milk," not
yet with the "solid food"[4] of stronger doctrine; inexperience so great, that
that infancy of faith prevented them from yet knowing what they were to do in
regard of carnal and sexual necessity. The very phases themselves of this
(inexperience) are intelligible from (the apostle's) rescripts, when he says:[5] "But
concerning these (things) which ye write; good it is for a man not to touch a
woman; but, on account of fornications, let each one have his own wife." He shows
that there were who, having been "apprehended by the faith" in (the state of)
marriage, were apprehensive that it might not be lawful for them thenceforward
to enjoy their marriage, because they had believed on the holy flesh of Christ.
And yet it is "by way of allowance" that he makes the concession, "not by way
of command;" that is, indulging, not enjoining, the practice. On the other
hand, he "willed rather" that all should be what he himself was. Similarly, too, in
sending a rescript on (the subject of) divorce, he demonstrates that some had
been thinking over that also, chiefly because withal they did not suppose that
they were to persevere, after faith, in heathen marriages. They sought counsel,
further, "concerning virgins"--for "precept of the Lord" there was none--(and
were told) that "it is good for a man if he so remain permanently;" ("so"), of
course, as he may have been found by the faith. "Thou hast been bound to a
wife, seek not loosing; thou hast been loosed from a wife, seek not a wife." "But
if thou shalt have taken to (thyself) a wife, thou hast not sinned;" because to
one who, before believing, had been "loosed from a wife," she will not be
counted a second wife who, subsequently to believing, is the first: for it is from
(the time of our) believing that our life itself dates its origin. But here he
says that he "is sparing them;" else "pressure of the flesh" would shortly
follow, in consequence of the straits of the times, which shunned the encumbrances
of marriage: yea, rather solicitude must be felt about earning the Lord's favour
than a husband's. And thus he recalls his permission. So, then, in the very
same passage in which he definitely rules that "each one ought permanently to
remain in that calling in which he shall be called;" adding, "A woman is bound so
long as her husband liveth; but if he shall have fallen asleep, she is free:
whom she shall wish let her marry, only in the Lord," he hence also demonstrates
that such a woman is to be understood as has withal herself been "found" (by
the faith) "loosed from a husband," similarly as the husband "loosed from a
wife"--the "loosing" having taken place through death, of course, not through
divorce; inasmuch as to the divorced he would grant no permission to marry, in the
teeth of the primary precept. And so "a woman, if she shall have married, will
not sin;" because he will not be reckoned a second husband who is, subsequently
to her believing, the first, any more (than a wife thus taken will be counted a
second wife). And so truly is this the case, that he therefore adds, "only in
the Lord;" because the question in agitation was about her who had had a heathen
(husband), and had believed subsequently to losing him: for fear, to wit, that
she might presume herself able to marry a heathen even after believing; albeit
not even this is an object of care to the Psychics. Let us plainly know that,
in the Greek original, it does not stand in the form which (through the either
crafty or simple alteration of two syllables) has gone out into common use,
"But if her husband shall haze fallen asleep," as if it were speaking of the
future, and thereby seemed to pertain to her who has lost her husband when already
in a believing state. If this indeed had been so, licence let loose without
limit would have granted a (fresh) husband as often as one had been lost, without @
any such modesty in marrying as is congruous even to heathens. But even if it
had been so, as if referring to future tim,e, "If any (woman's). husband shall
have died, even the future would just as much pertain to her whose husband
shall die before she believed. Take it which way you. will, provided you do not
overturn the rest. For since these (other passages) agree to the sense (given
above): "Thou hast been called (as) a slave; care not:" "Thou hast been called in
uncircumcision; be not circumcised:" "Thou hast been called in circumcision;
become not uncircumcised:" with which concurs, "Thou hast been bound to a wife;
seek not loosing: thou hast been loosed from a wife; seek not a wife,"--manifest
enough it is that these passages pertain to such as, finding themselves in a
new and recent "calling," were consulting (the apostle) on the subject of those
(circumstantial conditions) in which they had been "apprehended" by the faith.
This will be the interpretation of that passage, to be examined as to
whether it be congruous with the time and the occasion, and with the examples and
arguments preceding as well as with the sentences and senses succeeding, and
primarily with the individual advice and practice of the apostle himself: for
nothing is so much to be guarded as (the care) that no one be found
self-contradictory.
CHAP. XII.--THE EXPLANATION OF THE PASSAGE OFFERED BY THE PSYCHICS CONSIDERED.
Listen, withal, to the very subtle argumentation on the contrary side. "So
true is it," say (our opponents), "that the apostle has permitted the
iteration of marriage, that it is only such as are in the Clerical Order that he has
stringently bound to the yoke of monogamy. For that which he prescribes to
certain (individuals) he does not prescribe to all." Does it then follow, too, that
to bishops alone he does not prescribe what he does enjoin upon all; if what he
does prescribe to bishops he does not enjoin upon all? or is it therefore to
all because to bishops? and therefore to bishops because to all? For whence is it
that the bishops and clergy come? Is it not from all If all are not bound to
monogamy, whence are monogamists (to he taken) into the clerical rank? Will some
separate order of monogamists have to be instituted, from which to make
selection for the clerical body? (No); but when we are extolling and inflating
ourselves in opposition to the clergy, then "we are all one:" then "we are all
priests, because He hath made us priests to (His) God and Father." When we are
challenged to a thorough equalization with the sacerdotal discipline, we lay down the
(priestly) fillets, and (still) are on a par! The question in hand (when the
apostle was writing), was with reference to Ecclesiastical Orders--what son of
men ought to be ordained. It was therefore fitting that all the form of the
common discipline should be set forth on its fore-front, as an edict to be in a
certain sense universally and carefully attended to, that the laity might the
better know that they must themselves observe that order which was indispensable to
their overseers; and that even the office of honour itself might not flatter
itself in anything tending to licence, as if on the ground of privilege of
position. The Holy Spirit foresaw that some would say, "All things are lawful to
bishops;" just as that bishop of Utina of yours feared not even the Scantinian
law. Why, how many digamists, too, preside in your churches; insulting the
apostle, of course: at all events, not blushing when these passages are read under
their presidency!
Come, now, you who think that an exceptional law of monogamy is made with
reference to bishops, abandon withal your remaining disciplinary titles, which,
together with monogamy, are ascribed to bishops.[1] Refuse to be
"irreprehensible, sober, of good morals, orderly, hospitable, easy to be taught;" nay,
indeed, (be) "given to wine, prompt with the hand to strike, combative,
money-loving, not ruling your house, nor caring for your children's discipline,"--no, nor
"courting good renown even from strangers." For if bishops have a law of their
own teaching monogamy, the other (characteristics) likewise, which will be the
fitting concomitants of monogamy, will have been written (exclusively) for
bishops. With laics, however, to whom monogamy is not suitable, the other
(characteristics) also have nothing to do. (Thus), Psychic, you have (if you please)
evaded the bonds of discipline in its entirety! Be consistent in prescribing, that
"what is enjoined upon certain (individuals) is not enjoined upon all;" or
else, if the other (characteristics) indeed are common, but monogamy is imposed
upon bishops alone, (tell me), pray, whether they alone are to be pronounced
Christians upon whom is conferred the entirety of discipline?
CHAP. XIII.--FURTHER OBJECTIONS FROM ST. PAUL ANSWERED.
"But again, writing to Timotheus, he 'wills the very young (women) to
marry, bear children, act the housewife.'"[1] He is (here) directing (his speech)
to such as he denotes above--"very young widows," who, after being,
"apprehended" in widowhood, and (subsequently) wooed for some length of time, after they
have had Christ in their affections, "wish to marry, having judgment, because
they have rescinded the first faith,"--that (faith), to wit, by which they were
"found" in widowhood, and, after professing it, do not persevere. For which
reason he "wills" them to "marry," for fear of their subsequently rescinding the
first faith of professed widowhood; not to sanction their marrying as often as
ever they may refuse to persevere in a widowhood plied with temptation--nay,
rather, spent in indulgence.
"We read him withal writing to the Romans: 'But the woman who is under an
husband, is bound to her husband (while)living; but if he shall have died, she
has been emancipated from the law of the husband.' Doubtless, then, the husband
living, she will be thought to commit adultery if she shall have been joined
to a second husband. If, however, the husband shall have died, she has been
freed from (his) law, (so) that she is not an adulteress if made (wife) to another
husband."[2] But read the sequel as well in order that this sense, which
flatters you, may evade (your grasp). "And so," he says, "my brethren, be ye too made
dead to the law through the body of Christ, that ye may be made (subject) to a
second,--to Him, namely, who hath risen from the dead, that we may bear fruit
to God. For when we were in the flesh, the passions of sin, which (passions)
used to be efficiently caused through the law, (wrought) in our members unto the
bearing of fruit to death; but now we have been emancipated from the law, being
dead (to that) in which we used to be held,[3] unto the serving of God in
newness of spirit, and not in oldness of letter." Therefore, if he bids us "be made
dead to the law through the body of Christ," (which is the Church,[4] which
consists in the spirit of newness,) not "through the letter of oldness," (that
is, of the law,)--taking you away from the law, which does not keep a wife, when
her husband is dead, from becoming (wife) to another husband--he reduces you to
(subjection to) the contrary condition, that you are not to marry when you
have lost your husband; and in as far as you would not be accounted an adulteress
if you became (wife) to a second husband after the death of your (first)
husband, if you were still bound to act in (subjection to) the law, in so far as a
result of the diversity of (your) condition, he does prejudge you (guilty) of
adultery if, after the death of your husband, you do marry another: inasmuch as
you have now been made dead to the law, it cannot be lawful for you, now that you
have withdrawn from that (law) in the eye of which it was lawful for you.
CHAP. XIV.--EVEN IF THE PERMISSION HAD BEEN GIVEN BY ST. PAUL IN THE SENSE
WHICH THE PSYCHICS ALLEGE, IT WAS MERELY LIKE THE MOSAIC PERMISSION OF DIVORCE--A
CONDESCENSION TO HUMAN HARD-HEARTEDNESS.
Now, if the apostle had even absolutely permitted marriage when one's
partner has been lost subsequently to (conversion to) the faith, he would have done
(it), just as (he did) the other (actions) which he did adversely to the
(strict) letter of his own rule, to suit the circumstances. of the times:
circumcising Timotheus[5] on account of "supposititious false brethren;" and leading
certain "shaven men" into the temple[6] on account of the observant watchfulness of
the Jews--he who chastises the Galatians when they desire to live in
(observance of) the law.[7] But so did circumstances require him to "become all things
to all, in order to gain all;"[8] "travailing m birth with them until Christ
should be formed in them;"[9] and "cherishing, as it were a nurse," the little
ones of faith, by teaching them some things "by way of indulgence, not by way of
command"--for it is one thing to indulge, another to bid--permitting a temporary
licence of re-marriage on account of the "weakness of the flesh," just as
Moses of divorcing on account of "the hardness of the heart."
And here, accordingly, we will render the supplement of this (his)
meaning. For if Christ abrogated what Moses enjoined, because "from the beginning (it)
was not so;" and (if)--this being so--Christ will not therefore be reputed to
have come from some other Power; why may not the Paraclete, too, have abrogated
an indulgence which Paul granted--because second marriage withal "was not from
the beginning"--without deserving on this account to be regarded with
suspicion, as if he were an alien spirit, provided only that the superinduction be
worthy of God and of Christ? If it was worthy of God and of Christ to check
"hard-heartedness" when the time (for its indulgence) was fully expired, why should it
not be more worthy both of God and of Christ to shake off "infirmity of the
flesh" when "the time" is already mart "wound up?" If it is just that marriage be
not severed, it is, of course, honourable too that it be not iterated. In
short, in the estimation of the world, each is accounted a mark of good discipline:
one under the name of concord; one, of modesty. "Hardness of heart" reigned
till Christ's time; let "infirmity of the flesh" (be content to) have reigned
till the time of the Paraclete. The New Law abrogated divorce--it had (somewhat)
to abrogate; the New Prophecy (abrogates) second marriage, (which is) no less a
divorce of the former (marriage). But the "hardness of heart" yielded to Christ
more readily than the "infirmity of the flesh." The latter claims Paul in its
own support more than the former Moses; if, indeed, it is claiming him in its
support when it catches: at his indulgence, (but) refuses his prescript--eluding
his more deliberate opinions and his constant "wills," not suffering us to
render to the apostle the (obedience) which he "prefers,"
And how long will this most shameless "infirmity" persevere in waging a
war of extermination against the "better things?" The time for its indulgence was
(the interval) until the Paraclete began His operations, to whose coming were
deferred by the Lord (the things) which in H's day "could not be endured;"
which it is now no longer competent for any one to be unable to endure, seeing that
He through whom the power of enduring is granted is not wanting. How long
shall we allege "the flesh," because the Lord said, "the flesh is weak?"[1] But He
has withal premised that "the Spirit is prompt," in order that the Spirit may
vanquish the flesh--that the weak may yield to the stronger. For again He says,
"Let him who is able to receive, receive (it);"[2] that is, let him who is not
able go his way. That rich man did go his way who had not "received" the
precept of dividing his substance to the needy, and was abandoned by the Lord to his
own opinion.[3] Nor will "harshness" be on this account imputed to Christ, the
Found of the vicious action of each individual free-will. "Behold," saith He,
"I have set before thee good and evil."[4] Choose that which is good: if you
cannot, because you will not--for that you can if you will He has shown, because
He has proposed each to your free-will--you ought to depart from Him whose will
you do not.
CHAP. XV.--UNFAIRNESS OF CHARGING THE DISCIPLES OF THE NEW PROPHECY WITH
HARSHNESS. THE CHARGE RATHER TO BE RETORTED UPON THE PSYCHICS.
What harshness, therefore, is here on our part, if we renounce (communion
with) such as do not the will of God? What heresy, if we judge second marriage,
as being unlawful, akin to adultery? For what is adultery but unlawful
marriage? The apostle sets a brand upon those who were wont entirely to forbid
marriage, who were wont at the same time to lay an interdict on meats which God has
created.[5] We, however, no more do away with marriage if we abjure its
repetition, than we reprobate meats if we fast oftener (than others). It is one thing to
do away with, another to regulate; it is one thing to, lay down a law of not
marrying, it is another to fix a limit to marrying. To speak plainly, if they
who reproach us with harshness, or esteem heresy (to exist) in this (our) cause,
foster the "infirmity of the flesh" to such a degree as to think it must have
support accorded to it in frequency of marriage; why do they in another case
neither accord it support nor foster it with indulgence--when, (namely), torments
have reduced it to a denial (of the faith)? For, of course, that (infirmity) is
more capable of excuse which has fallen in battle, than (that) which (has
fallen) in the bed-chamber; (that) which has succumbed on the rack, than (that)
which (has succumbed) on the bridal bed; (that) which has yielded to cruelty, than
(that) which (has yielded) to appetite; that which has been overcome groaning,
than (that) which (has been overcome) in heat. But the former they
excommunicate, because it has not "endured unto the end:"[6] the latter they prop up, as
if withal it has "endured unto the end." Propose (the question) why each has not
"endured unto the end;" and you will find the cause of that (infirmity) to be
more honourable which has been unable to sustain savagery, than (of that) which
(has been unable to sustain) modesty. And yet not even a bloodwrung--not to
say an immodest--defection does the "infirmity of the flesh" excuse!
CHAP. XVI.--WEAKNESS OF THE PLEAS URGED IN DEFENCE OF SECOND MARRIAGE.
But I smile when (the plea of) "infirmity of the flesh" is advanced in
opposition (to us: infirmity) which is (rather) to be called the height of
strength. Iteration of marriage is an affair of strength: to rise again from the ease
of continence to the works of the flesh, is (a thing requiting) substantial
reins. Such "infirmity" is equal, to a third, and a fourth, and even (perhaps) a
seventh marriage; as (being a thing) which increases its strength as often as
its weakness; which will no longer have (the support of) an apostle's authority,
but of some Hermogenes--wont to marry more women than he paints. For in him
matter is abundant: whence he presumes that even the soul is material; and
therefore much more (than other men) he has not the Spirit from God, being no longer
even a Psychic, because even his psychic element is not derived from God's
afflatus! What if a man allege "indigence," so as to profess that his flesh is
openly prostituted, and given in marriage for the sake of maintenance; forgetting
that there is to be no careful thought about food and clothing?[1] He has God (to
look to), the Foster-father even of ravens, the Rearer even of flowers. What
if he plead the loneliness of his home? as if one woman afforded company to a
man ever on the eve of flight! He has, of course, a widow (at hand), whom it will
be lawful for him to take. Not one such wife, but even a plurality, it is
permitted to have. What if a man thinks on posterity, with thoughts like the eyes
of Lot's wife; so that a man is to make the fact that from his former marriage
he has had no children a reason for repeating marriage? A Christian, forsooth,
will seek heirs, disinherited as he is from the entire world! He has "brethren;"
he has the Church as his mother. The case is different if men believe that, at
the bar of Christ as well (as of Rome), action is taken on the principle of
the Julian laws; and imagine that the unmarried and childless cannot receive
their portion in full, in accordance with the testament of God. Let such (as thus
think), then, marry to the very end; that in this confusion of flesh they, like
Sodom and Gomorrah, and the day of the deluge, may be overtaken by the fated
final end of the world. A third saying let them add, "Let us eat, and drink, and
really, for to-morrow we shall die;"[2] not reflecting that the "woe"
(denounced) "on such as are with child, and are giving suck,"[3] will fall far more
heavily and bitterly in the "universal shaking"[4] of the entire world[5] than it
did in the devastation of one fraction of Judaea. Let them accumulate by their
iterated marriages fruits right seasonable for the last times--breasts heaving,
and wombs qualmish, and infants whimpering. Let them prepare for Antichrist
(children) upon whom he may more passionately (than Pharaoh) spend his savagery.He
will lead to them murderous midwives.[6]
CHAP. XVII.--HEATHEN EXAMPLES CRY SHAME UPON THIS "INFIRMITY' OF THE FLESH."[7]
They will have plainly a specious privilege to plead before Christ--the
everlasting "infirmity of the flesh!" But upon this (infirmity) will sit in
judgment no longer an Isaac, our monogamist father; or a John, a noted voluntary
celibate[8] of Christ's; or a Judith, daughter of Merari; or so many other
examples of saints. Heathens are wont to be destined our judges. There will arise a
queen of Carthage, and give sentence upon the Christians, who, refugee as she
was, living on alien soil, and at that very time the originator of so mighty a
state, whereas she ought unasked to have craved royal nuptials, yet, for fear she
should experience a second marriage, preferred on the contrary rather to "burn"
than to "marry." Her assessor will be the Roman matron who, having--albeit it
was through noctural violence, nevertheless--known another man, washed away
with blood the stain of her flesh, that she might avenge upon her own person (the
honour of) monogamy. There have been, too, who preferred to die for their
husbands rather than marry after their husbands' death. To idols, at all events,
both monogamy and widowhood serve as apparitors. On Fortuna Muliebris, as on
Mother Matuta, none but a once wedded woman hangs the wreath. Once for all do the
Pontifex Maximus and the wife of a Flamen marry. The priestesses of Ceres, even
during the lifetime and with the consent of their husbands, are widowed by
amicable separation. There are, too, who may judge us on the ground of absolute
continence: the virgins of Vesta, and of the Achaian Juno, and of the Scythian
Diana, and of the Pythian Apollo. On the ground of continence the priests likewise
of the famous Egyptian bull will judge the "infirmity" of Christians. Blush, O
flesh, who hast "put on"[9] Christ ! Suffice it thee once for all to marry,
whereto "from the beginning" thou wast created, whereto by "the end" thou art
being recalled! Return at least to the former Adam, if to the last thou canst not!
Once for all did he taste of the tree; once for all felt concupiscence; once
for all veiled his shame; once for all blushed in the presence of God; once for
all concealed his guilty hue; once for all was exiled from the paradise of
holiness;[10] once for all thenceforward married. If you were "in him,"[11] you have
your norm; if you have passed over "into Christ,"[12] you will be bound to be
(yet) better. Exhibit (to us) a third Adam, and him a digamist; and then you
will be able to be what, between the two, you cannot.
ELUCIDATIONS.
I. (About 160 years having elapsed, pp. 59, 61.)
IF the First Epistle to the Corinthians was written A.D. 57, and if our
author speaks with designed precision, and not in round numbers, the date of this
treatise should be A.D. 217--a date which I should prefer to accept. Bishop
Kaye,[1] however, instances capp. 7 and 9 in the Ad Nationes as proving his
disposition to give his numbers in loose rhetoric, and not with arithmetical
accuracy. Pamelius, on the other hand, gives A.D. 213.
On the general subject Kaye bids us read cap. 3, with cap. 14, to grasp
the argument of our enthusiast.[2] In few words, our author holds that St. Paul
condescends to human infirmity in permitting any marriage whatever, pointing to
a better way.[3] The apostle himself says, "The time is short;" but a hundred
and sixty years have passed since then, and why may not the Spirit of truth and
righteousness now, after so long a time, be given to animate the adult Church
to that which is pronounced the better way in Scripture itself?
Our author seems struggling here, according to my view, with his own rule
of prescription. He would free the doctrine from the charge of novelty by
pointing it out in the Scripture of a hundred and sixty years before. But how
instinctively the Church ruled against this sophistry, condemning in advance that
whole system of "development" which a modern Tertullian defends on grounds quite
as specious, under a Montanistic subjection that makes a Priscilla of the Roman
pontiff. Let me commend the reader to the remarks upon Tertullian of the
"judicious Hooker," in book ii. capp. v. 5, 6; also book i@t. cap. vii. 4, 5, and
elsewhere.
II. (Abrogated indulgence (comp. capp. 2 and 3), P. 70.)
Poor Tertullian is at war with himself in all the works which he indites
against Catholic orthodoxy. In the tract De Exhort. Castitatis he gives one
construction to 1 Cor. ix. 5, which in this he explains away;[4] and now he patches
up his conclusion by referring to his Montanistic "Paraclete." In fighting
Marcion, how thoroughly he agrees with Clement of Alexandria as to the sanctity of
marriage. In the second epistle to his wife, how beautiful his tribute to the
married state, blessed by the Church, and enjoyed in chastity. But here s how
fanatically he would make out that marriage is but tolerated adultery ! From
Tertullian himself we may prove the marriage of the clergy, and that (de Exhort,
Cast., last chapter) abstinence was voluntary and exceptional, however
praiseworthy. Also, if he here urges that (cap. 12) even laymen should abstain from
second marriages, he allows the liberty of the clergy to marry once. He admits St.
Peter's marriage. Eusebius proves the marriage of St. Jude. Concerning "the
gave dignity" of a single marriage, we may concede that Tertullian proves his
point, but no further.
In England the principles of the Monogamia were revived by the eccentric
Whiston (circa A.D. 1750), and attracted considerable attention among the
orthodox,--a fact pleasantly satirized by Goldsmith in his Vicar of Wakefield.
On the general subject comp. Chrysost., tom. iii. p. 226: "Laus Maximi, et
quales ducendae sint uxores?