THE EPISTLES OF CYPRIAN: EPISTLE LXI.--TO POMPONIUS, CONCERNING SOME VIRGINS
EPISTLE LXI.[4]
TO POMPONIUS, CONCERNING SOME VIRGINS.
ARGUMENT.--CYPRIAN, WITH SOME OF HIS COLLEAGUES, REPLIES TO HIS COLLEAGUE
POMPONIUS, THAT VIRGINS WHO HAD DETERMINED TO MAINTAIN THEIR STATE WITH CONTINENCY
AND FIRMNESS, BUT WHO HAD YET SUBSEQUENTLY BEEN FOUND IN THE SAME BED WITH MEN,
IF THEY WERE STILL FOUND TO BE VIRGINS, SHOULD BE RECEIVED INTO COMMUNION AND
ADMITTED TO THE CHURCH. BUT IF OTHERWISE, SINCE THEY ARE ADULTEROUS TOWARDS
CHRIST, THEY SHOULD BE COMPELLED TO FULL REPENTANCE, AND THOSE WHO SHOULD
OBSTINATELY PERSEVERE SHOULD BE EJECTED FROM THE CHURCH.
1. Cyprian, Caecilius, Victor, Sedatus, Tertullus, with the presbyters who
were present with them, to Pomponius their brother, greeting. We have read,
dearest brother, your letter which you sent by Paconius our brother, asking and
desiring us to write again to you, and say what we thought of those virgins who,
after having once determined to continue in their condition, and firmly to
maintain their continency, have afterwards been found to have remained in the same
bed side by side with men; of whom you say that one is a deacon; and yet that
the same virgins who have confessed that they have slept with men declare that
they are chaste.[1] Concerning which matters, since you have desired our
advice, know that we do not depart from the traditions of the Gospel and of the
apostles, but with constancy and firmness take counsel for our brethren and sisters,
and maintain the discipline of the Church by all the ways of usefulness and
safety, since the Lord speaks, saying, "And I will give you pastors according to.
mine heart, and they shall feed you with discipline."[2] And again it is
written; "Whoso despiseth discipline is miserable;[3] and in the Psalms also the
Holy Spirit admonishes and instructs us, saying, "Keep discipline, lest haply the
Lord be angry, and ye perish from the right way, when His anger shall quickly
burn against you."[4]
2. In the first place, therefore, dearest brother, both by overseers and
people nothing is to be more eagerly sought after, than that we who fear God
should keep the divine precepts with every observation of discipline, and should
not suffer our brethren to stray, and to live according to their own fancy and
lust;[5] but that we should faithfully consult for the life of each one, and not
stiffer virgins to dwell with men,--I do not say to sleep together, but to
live together[6]--since both their weak sex and their age, still critical, ought
to be bridled in all things and ruled by us, lest an occasion should be given to
the devil who ensnares us, and desires to rage over us, to hurt them, since
the apostle also says, "Do not give place to the devil."[7] The ship is
watchfully to be delivered from perilous places, that it may not be broken among the
rocks and cliffs; the baggage must swiftly be taken out of the fire, before it is
burnt up by the flames reaching it. No one who is near to danger is long safe,
nor will the servant of God be able to escape the devil if he has entangled
himself in the devil's nets. We must interfere at once with such as these, that
they may be separated while yet they can be separated in innocence; because by
and by they will not be able to be separated by our interference, after they have
become joined together by a very guilty conscience. Moreover, what a number of
serious mischiefs we see to have arisen hence; and what a multitude of virgins
we behold corrupted by unlawful and dangerous conjunctions of this kind, to
our great grief of mind! But if they have faithfully dedicated themselves to
Christ, let them persevere in modesty and chastity, without incurring any evil
report, and so in courage and steadiness await the reward of virginity. But if they
are unwilling or unable to persevere, it is better that they should marry,
than that by their crimes they should fall into the fire. Certainly let them not
cause a scandal to the brethren or sisters, since it is written, "If meat cause
my brother to offend, I will eat no flesh while the world standeth, lest I make
my brother to offend."[8]
3. Nor let any one think that she can be defended by this excuse, that she
may be examined and proved whether she be a virgin; since both the hands and
the eyes of the midwives are often deceived; and if she be found to be a virgin
in that particular in which a woman may be so, yet she may have sinned in some
other part of her body, which may be cor-rupted and yet cannot be examined.
Assuredly the mere lying together, the mere embracing, the very talking together,
and the act of kissing, and the disgraceful and foul slumber of two persons
lying together, how much of dishonour and crime does it confess! If a husband come
upon his wife, and see her lying with another man, is he not angry and raging,
and by the passion of his rage does he not perhaps take his sword into his
hand? And what shall Christ and our Lord and Judge think, when He sees His virgin,
dedicated to Him, and destined for His holiness, lying with another? How
indignant and angry is He, and what penalties does He threaten against such unchaste
connections! whose spiritual sword and the coming day of judgment, that every
one of the brethren may be able to escape, we ought with all our counsel to
provide and to strive. And since it behoves all by all means to keep
discipline,[9] much more is it right that overseers and deacons should be careful for this,
that they may afford an example and instruction to others concerning their
conversation and character. For how can they direct the integrity and continence of
others, if the corruptions and teachings of sin begin to proceed from
themselves?
4. And therefore you have acted advisedly and with vigour, dearest
brother, in excommunicating the deacon who has often abode with a virgin; and,
moreover, the others who had been used to sleep with virgins. But if they have
repented of this their unlawful lying together, and have mutually withdrawn from one
another, let the virgins meantime be carefully inspected by midwives; and if
they should be found virgins, let them be received to communion, and admitted to
the Church; yet with this threatening, that if subsequently they should return
to the same men, or if they should dwell together with the same men in one house
or under the same roof, they should be ejected with a severer censure, nor
should such be afterwards easily received into the Church. But if any one of them
be found to be corrupted, let her abundantly repent, because she who has been
guilty of this crime is an adulteress, not (indeed) against a husband, but
against Christ; and therefore, a due time being appointed, let her afterwards, when
confession has been made, return to the Church. But if they obstinately
persevere, and do not mutually separate themselves, let them know that, with this
their immodest obstinacy, they can never be admitted by us into the Church, lest
they should begin to set an example to others to go to ruin by their crimes. Nor
let them think that the way of life or of salvation is still open to them, if
they have refused to obey the bishops and priests, since in Deuteronomy the
Lord God says, "And the man that will do presumptuously, and will not hearken
unto the priest or judge, whosoever be shall be in those days, that man shall die,
and all the people shall hear and fear, and do no more presumptuously."[1] God
commanded those who did not obey His priests to be slain, and those who did
not hearken to His judges who were appointed for the time. And then indeed they
were slain with the sword, when the circumcision of the flesh was yet in force;
but now that circumcision has begun to be of the spirit among God's faithful
servants, the proud and contumacious are slain with the sword of the Spirit, in
that they are cast out of the Church. For they cannot live out of it, since the
house of God is one, and there can be no salvation to any except in the Church.
But the divine Scripture testifies that the undisciplined perish, because they
do not listen to, nor obey wholesome precepts; for it says, "An undisciplined
man loveth not him that correcteth him. But they who hate reproof shall be
consumed with disgrace."[2]
5. Therefore, dearest brother, endeavour that the undisciplined should not
be consumed and perish, that as much as you can, by your salutary counsels,
you should rule the brotherhood, and take counsel of each one with a view to his
salvation. Strait and narrow is the way through which we enter into life, but
excellent and great is the reward when we enter into glory. Let those who have
once made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven[3] please God in all
things, and not offend God's priests nor the Lord's Church by the scandal of their
wickedness. And if, for the present, certain of our brethren seem to be made
sorry by us, let us nevertheless remain in our wholesome persuasion, knowing that
an apostle also has said, "Am I therefore become your enemy because I tell you
the truth?"[4] But if they shall obey us, we have gained our brethren, and
have formed them as well to salvation as to dignity by our address. But if some of
the perverse persons refuse to obey, let us follow the same apostle, who says,
"If I please men, I should not be the servant of Christ."[5] If we cannot
please some, so as to make them please Christ, let us assuredly, as far as we can,
please Christ our Lord and God, by observing His precepts. I bid you, brother
beloved and much longed-for. heartily farewell in the Lord.[6]