HOMILIES OF ST. JOHN CHRYSOSTOM ON THE EPISTLE OF ST. PAUL THE APOSTLE TO THE
COLOSSIANS, HOMILIES IX TO XII (CHAPTERS 3 & 4)
HOMILY IX.
COLOSSIANS iii. 16, 17.
"Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and
admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace
in your hearts to God.(1) And whatsoever ye do in word or in deed, do all in
the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him."
HAVING exhorted them to be thankful, he shows also the way, that, of which
I have lately discoursed to you. And what saith he? "Let the word of Christ
dwell in you richly"; or rather not this way alone, but another also. For I
indeed said that we ought to reckon up those who have suffered things more terrible,
and those who have undergone sufferings more grievous than ours, and to give
thanks that such have not fallen to our lot; but what saith he? "Let the word of
Christ dwell in you"; that is, the teaching, the doctrines, the exhortation,
wherein He says, that the present life is nothing, nor yet its good things. If
we know this, we shall yield to no hardships whatever. (Matt. vi. 25, &c.) "Let
it dwell in you," he saith, "richly," not simply dwell, but with great
abundance. Hearken ye, as many as are worldly,(2) and have the charge of wife and
children; how to you too he commits especially the reading of the Scriptures and
that not to be done lightly, nor in any sort of way, but with much earnestness.
For as the rich in money can bear fine and damages, so he that is rich in the
doctrines of philosophy will bear not poverty only, but all calamities also
easily, yea, more easily than that one. For as for him, by discharging the fine, the
man who is rich must needs be impoverished, and found wanting,(3) and if he
should often suffer in that way, will no longer be able to bear it, but in this
case it is not so; for we do not even expend our wholesome thoughts when it is
necessary for us to bear aught we would not choose, but they abide with us
continually. And mark the wisdom of this blessed man. He said not, "Let the word of
Christ" be in you, simply, but what? "dwell in you," and "richly."
"In all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another." "In all," says he.
Virtue he calls wisdom, and lowliness of mind is wisdom, and almsgiving, and
other such like things, are wisdom; just as the contraries are folly, for cruelty
too cometh of folly. Whence in many places it calleth the whole of sin folly.
"The fool," saith one, "hath said in his heart, There is no God" (Ps. xiv. 1);
and again, "My wounds stink and are corrupt from the face of my foolishness."
(Ps. xxxviii. 5, Sept.) For what is more foolish, tell me, than one who indeed
wrappeth himself about in his own garments, but regardeth not his brethren that
are naked; who feedeth dogs, and careth not that the image of God is famishing;
who is merely persuaded that human things are nought, and yet clings to them
as if immortal. As then nothing is more foolish than such an one, so is nothing
wiser than one that achieveth virtue. For mark; how wise he is, says one. He
imparteth of his substance, he is pitiful, he is loving to men, he hath well
considered that he beareth a common nature with them; he hath well considered the
use of wealth, that it is worthy of no estimation; that one ought to be sparing
of bodies that are of kin to one, rather than of wealth. He that is a despiser
of glory is wholly wise, for he knoweth human affairs; the knowledge of things
divine and human, is philosophy. So then he knoweth what things are divine, and
what are human, and from the one he keeps himself, on the other he bestoweth
his pains. And he knows how to give thanks also to God in all things, he
considers the present life as nothing; therefore he is neither delighted with
prosperity, nor grieved with the opposite condition.
Tarry not, I entreat, for another to teach thee; thou hast the oracles of
God. No man teacheth thee as they; for he indeed oft grudgeth much for
vainglory's sake and envy. Hearken, I entreat you, all ye that are careful for this
life, and procure books that will be medicines for the soul. If ye will not any
other, yet get you at least the New Testament, the Apostolic Epistles, the Acts,
the Gospels, for your constant teachers. If grief befall thee, dive into them
as into a chest of medicines; take thence comfort of thy trouble, be it loss, or
death, or bereavement of relations; or rather dive not into them merely, but
take them wholly to thee; keep them in thy mind.
This is the cause of all evils, the not knowing the Scriptures. We go into
battle without arms, and how ought we to come off safe? Well contented should
we be if we can be safe with them, let alone without them. Throw not the whole
upon us! Sheep ye are, still not without reason, but rational; Paul committeth
much to you also. They that are under instruction, are not for ever learning;
for then they are not taught. If thou art for ever learning, thou wilt never
learn. Do not so come as meaning to be always learning; (for so thou wilt never
know;) but so as to finish learning, and to teach others. In the arts do not all
persons continue for set times, in the sciences, and in a word, in all the
arts? Thus we all fix definitely a certain known time; but if ye are ever learning,
it is a certain proof that ye have learned nothing.
This reproach God spake against the Jews. "Borne from the belly, and
instructed even to old age." (Isa. xlvi. 3, 4, Sept.) If ye had not always been
expecting this, all things would not have gone backward in this way. Had it been
so, that some had finished learning, and others were about to have finished, our
work would have been forward; ye would both have given place to others, and
would have helped us as well. Tell me, were some to go to a grammarian and
continue always learning their letters, would they not give their teacher much
trouble? How long shall I have to discourse to you concerning life? In the Apostles'
times it was not thus, but they continually leaped from place to place,
appointing those who first learned to be the teachers of any others that were under
instruction. Thus they were enabled to circle the world, through not being bound
to one place. How much instruction, think ye, do your brethren in the country
stand in need of, [they] and their teachers? But ye hold me riveted fast here.
For, before the head is set right, it is superfluous to proceed to the rest of
the body. Ye throw everything upon us. Ye alone ought to learn from us, and your
wives from you, your children from you; but ye leave all to us. Therefore our
toil is excessive.
"Teaching," he saith, "and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns
and spiritual songs." Mark also the considerateness of Paul. Seeing that reading
is toilsome, and its irksomeness great, he led them not to histories, but to
psalms, that thou mightest at once delight thy soul with singing, and gently
beguile thy labors. "Hymns," he saith, "and spiritual songs." But now your
children will utter songs and dances of Satan, like cooks, and caterers, and
musicians; no one knoweth any psalm, but it seems a thing to be ashamed of even, and a
mockery, and a joke. There is the treasury house of all these evils. For
whatsoever soil the plant stands in, such is the fruit it bears; if in a sandy and
salty soil, of like nature is its fruit; if in a sweet and rich one, it is again
similar. So the matter of instruction is a sort of fountain. Teach him to sing
those psalms which are so full of the love of wisdom; as at once concerning
chastity, or rather, before all, of not companying with the wicked, immediately
with the very beginning of the book; (for therefore also it was that the prophet
began on this wise, "Blessed is the man that hath not walked in the counsel of
the ungodly"; Ps. i. 1, and again, "I have not sat in I.the council of
vanity", Ps. xxvi. 4, Sept., and again, "in his sight a wicked doer is contemned, but
he honoreth those that fear the Lord," Ps. xv. 4, Sept.,) of companying with
the good, (and these subjects thou wilt find there in abundance,) of restraining
the belly, of restraining the hand, of refraining from excess, of not
overreaching; that money is nothing, nor glory, and other things such like.
When in these thou hast led him on from childhood, by little and little
thou wilt lead him forward even to the higher things. The Psalms contain all
things, but the Hymns again have nothing human.[1] When he has been instructed out
of the Psalms, he will then know hymns also, as a diviner thing. For the Powers
above chant hymns, not psalms. For "a hymn," saith one, "is not comely in the
month of a sinner" (Ecclus. xv. 9); and again, "Mine eyes shall be upon the
faithful of the land, that they sit together with me" (Ps. ci. 6, 7, Sept.); and
again, "he that worketh haughtiness hath not dwelt in the midst of my house";
and again, "He that walketh in a blameless way, he ministered unto me." (Ps. ci.
6, Sept.)
So that ye should safely guard them from intermixing themselves, not only
with friends, but even with servants. For the harm done to the free is
incalculable, when we place over them corrupt slaves. For if when enjoying all the
benefit of a father's affection and wisdom, they can with difficulty be preserved
safe throughout; when we hand them over to the unscrupulousness of servants,
they use them like enemies, thinking that they will prove milder masters to them,
when they have made them perfect fools, and weak, and worthy of no respect.
More then than all other things together, let us attend seriously to this.
"I have loved," saith he," those that love thy law." (Ps. cxix. 165, not
exact.) This man then let us too emulate, and such let us love. And that the young
may further be taught chastity, let them hear the Prophet, saying, "My loins are
filled with illusions"[1] (Ps. xxxviii. 7, Sept.); and again let them hear him
saying, "Thou wilt utterly destroy every one that goeth a whoring from Thee."
(Ps. lxxiii. 27, Sept.) And, that one ought to restrain the belly, let them
hear again, "And slew," he saith, "the more part of them[2] while the meat was yet
in their mouths." (Ps. Ixxviii. 30, Sept.) And that they ought to be above
bribes, "If riches become abundant, set [not][3] your heart upon them" (Ps. lxii.
10); and that they ought to keep glory in subjection, "Nor shall his glory
descend together after him." (Ps. xlix. 17.) And not to envy the wicked, "Be not
envious against them that work unrighteousness." (Ps. xxxvii. 1.) And to count
power as nothing, "I saw the ungodly in exceeding high place, and lifting himself
up as the cedars of Libanus, and I passed by, and lo! he was not." (Ps.
xxxvii. 35.) And to count these present things as nothing, "They counted the people
happy, that are in such a case; happy are the people, whose helper is the Lord
their God." (Ps. cxliv. 15, Sept.) That we do not sin without notice, but that
there is a retribution, "for," he saith, "Thou shalt render to every man
according to his works." (Ps. lxii. 12, Sept.) But why doth he not so requite them day
by day? "God is a judge," he says; "righteous, and strong, and longsuffering."
(Ps. vii. 11.) That lowliness of mind is good, "Lord," he saith, "my heart is
not lifted up" (Ps. cxxxi. 1): that pride is evil, "Therefore," he said, "pride
took hold on them wholly" (Ps. lxxiii. 6, Sept.); and again, "The Lord
resisteth the proud"; and again, "Their injustice shall come out as of fatness." That
almsgiving is good, "He hath dispersed, he hath given to the needy, his
righteousness endureth for ever." (Prov. iii. 34.) And that to pity is praiseworthy,
"He is a good man that pitieth, and lendeth." (Ps. lxxiii. 7, Sept.) And thou
wilt find there many more doctrines than these, full of true philosophy; such as,
that one ought not to speak evil, "Him that privily slandereth his neighbor,
him did I chase from me." (Ps. cxii. 9.)
What is the hymn of those above? The Faithful know. What say the cherubim
above? What say the Angels? "Glory to God in the highest." (Ps. cxii. 5.)
Therefore after the psalmody come the hymns, as a thing of more perfection. "With
psalms," he saith, "with hymns, with spiritual songs, with grace singing in your
hearts to God." (Ps. ci. 5, Sept.) He means either this, that God because of
grace hath given us these things; or, with the songs in grace; or, admonishing
and teaching one another in grace; or, that they had these gifts in grace; or, it
is an epexegesis[4] and he means, from the grace of the Spirit. "Singing in
your hearts to God." Not simply with the mouth, he means, but with heedfulness.
For this is to "sing to God," but that to the air, for the voice is scattered
without result. Not for display, he means. And even if thou be in the
market-place, thou canst collect thyself, and sing unto God, no one hearing thee. For
Moses also in this way prayed, and was heard, for He saith, "Why eriest thou unto
Me?" (Ex. xiv. 15) albeit he said nothing, but cried in thought--wherefore also
God alone heard him--with a contrite heart. For it is not forbidden one even
when walking to pray in his heart, and to dwell above.
Ver. 17. "And whatsoever ye do," he saith, "in word or in deed, do all in
the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him."
For if we thus do, there will be nothing polluted, nothing unclean,
wherever Christ is called on. If thou eat, if thou drink, if thou marry, if thou
travel, do all in the Name of God, that is, calling Him to aid thee: in everything
first praying to Him, so take hold of thy business. Wouldest thou speak
somewhat? Set this in front. For this cause we also place in front of our epistles the
Name of the Lord. Wheresoever the Name of God is, all is auspicious. For if
the names of Consuls make writings sure, much more doth the Name of Christ. Or he
means this; after God say ye and do everything, do not introduce the Angels
besides. Dost thou eat? Give thanks to God both before and afterwards. Dost thou
sleep? Give thanks to God both before and afterwards. Launchest thou into the
forum? Do the same--nothing worldly, nothing of this life. Do all in the Name of
the Lord, and all shall be prospered to thee. Whereonsoever the Name is
placed, there all things are auspicious. If it casts out devils, if it drives away
diseases, much more does it render business easy. And what is to "do in word or
in deed"? Either requesting or performing anything whatever. Hear how in the
Name of God Abraham sent his servant; David in the Name of God slew Goliath.
Marvelous is His Name and great. Again, Jacob sending his sons saith, "My God give
you favor in the sight of the man." (Gen. xliii. 14.) For he that doeth this
hath for his ally, God, without whom he durst do nothing. As honored then by being
called upon, He will in turn honor by making their business easy. Invoke the
Son, give thanks to the Father. For when the Son is invoked, the Father is
invoked, and when He is thanked, the Son has been thanked.
These things let us learn, not as far as words only, but to fulfill them
also by works. Nothing is equal to this Name; marvelous is it everywhere. "Thy
Name," he saith, "is ointment poured forth." (Cant. i. 3.) He that hath uttered
it is straightway filled with fragrance. "No man," it is said, "can call Jesus
Lord, but by the Holy Ghost." (1 Cor. xii. 3.) So great things doth this Name
Work. If thou have said, In[1] the Name of Father, and Son, and Holy Ghost, with
faith, thou hast accomplished everything. See, how great things thou hast
done! Thou hast created a man, and wrought all the rest (that cometh) of Baptism!
So, when used in commanding diseases, terrible is The Name. Therefore the devil
introduced those[3] of the Angels, envying us the honor. Such incantations are
for the demons. Even if it be Angel, even if it be Archangel, even if it be
Cherubim, allow it not; for neither will these Powers accept such addresses, but
will even toss them away from them, when they have beheld their Master
dishonored. "I have honored thee," He saith, "and have said, Call upon Me"; and dost
thou dishonor Him? If thou chant this incantation with faith, thou wilt drive away
both diseases and demons,[4] and even if thou have failed to drive away the
disease, this is not from lack of power, but because it is expedient it should be
so. "According to Thy greatness, he saith, "so also is Thy praise." (Ps.
xlviii. 10.) By this Name hath the world been converted, the tyranny dissolved, the
devil trampled on, the heavens opened. We have been regenerated by this Name.
This if we have, we beam forth; This maketh both martyrs and confessors; This
let us hold fast as a great gift, that we may live in glory, and be well-pleasing
to God, and be counted worthy of the good things promised to them that love
Him, through the grace and lovingkindness, &c.
HOMILY X.
COLOSSIANS iii. 18--25.
"Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. Children, obey your parents
in all things, for this is well-pleasing in[2] the Lord. Fathers, provoke not
your children, that they be not discouraged. Servants, obey in all things them
that are your masters according to the flesh; not with eye-service, as
men-pleasers, but in singleness of heart, fearing the Lord: whatsoever ye do, work
heartily, as unto the Lord, and not unto men; knowing that from the Lord ye shall
receive the recompense of the inheritance: ye serve the Lord Christ. For he that
doeth wrong shall receive again for the wrong that he hath done: and there is
no respect of persons with God. (Chap. iv. 1.) Masters, render unto your
servants that which is just and equal; knowing that ye also have a Master in heaven."
WHY does he not give these commands everywhere, and in all the Epistles,
but only here, and in that to the Ephesians, and that to Timothy, and that to
Titus? Because probably there were dissensions in these cities; or probably they
were correct in other respects, so that it was expedient they should hear about
these things. Rather, however, what he saith to these, he saith to all. Now in
these things also this Epistle bears great resemblance to that to the
Ephesians, either[5] because it was not fitting to write about these things to men
now[6] at peace, who needed to be instructed in high doctrines as yet lacking to
them, or because that for persons who had been comforted under trials, it were
superfluous to hear on these subjects. So that I conjecture, that in this place
the Church was now well-grounded, and that these things are said as in finishing.
Ver. 18. "Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the
Lord."
That is, be subject for God's sake, because this adorneth you, he saith,
not them. For I mean not that subjection which is due to a master, nor yet that
alone which is of nature, but that for God's sake.
Ver. 19. "Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them."
See how again he has exhorted to reciprocity. As in the other case he
enjoineth fear and love, so also doth he here. For it is possible for one who loves
even, to be bitter. What he saith then is this. Fight not; for nothing is more
bitter than this fighting, when it takes place on the part of the husband
toward the wife. For the fightings which happen between beloved persons, these are
bitter; and he shows that it ariseth from great bitterness, when, saith he, any
one is at variance with his own member. To love therefore is the husband's
part, to yield pertains to the other side. If then each one contributes his own
part, all stands firm. From being loved, the wife too becomes loving; and from
her being submissive, the husband becomes yielding. And see how in nature also it
hath been so ordered, that the one should love, the other obey. For when the
party governing loves the governed, then everything stands fast. Love from the
governed is not so requisite, as from the governing towards the governed; for
from the other obedience is due. For that the woman hath beauty, and the man
desire, shows nothing else than that for the sake of love it hath been made so. Do
not therefore, because thy wife is subject to thee, act the despot; nor because
thy husband loveth thee, be thou puffed up. Let neither the husband's love
elate the wife, nor the wife's subjection puff up the husband. For this cause hath
He subjected her to thee, that she may be loved the more. For this cause He
hath made thee to be loved, O wife, that thou mayest easily bear thy subjection.
Fear not in being a subject; for subjection to one that loveth thee hath no
hardship. Fear not in loving, for thou hast her yielding. In no other way then
could a bond have been. Thou hast then thine authority of necessity, proceeding
from nature; maintain also the bond that proceedeth from love, for this alloweth
the weaker to be endurable.[1]
Ver. 20. "Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is
well-pleasing in the Lord."
Again he has put that, "in the Lord," at once laying down the laws of
obedience, and shaming them, and casting them down. For this, saith he, is
well-pleasing to the Lord. See how he would have us do all not from nature only, but,
prior to this, from what is pleasing to God, that we may also have reward.
Ver. 21. "Fathers, provoke not your children, that they be not
discouraged."
Lo! again here also is subjection and love. And he said not, "Love your
children," for it had been superfluous, seeing that nature itself constraineth to
this; but what needed correction he corrected; that the love should in this
case also be the more vehement, because that the obedience is greater. For it
nowhere lays down as an exemplification the relation of husband and wife; but
what? hear the prophet saying, "Like as a father pitieth his children, so the Lord
pitied them that fear Him" (Ps. ciii. 13, Sept.) And again Christ saith, "What
man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? or if
he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?" (Matt. vii. 9.)
"Fathers, provoke not your children, that they be not discouraged."
He hath set down what he knew had the greatest power to seize upon them;
and whilst commanding them he has spoken more like a friend; and nowhere does he
mention God, for he would overcome parents, and bow their tender affections.
That is, "Make them not more contentious, there are occasions when you ought
even to give way."
Next he comes to the third kind of authority. There is here also a certain
love, but that no more proceeding from nature, as above, but from habit, and
from the authority itself, and the works done. Seeing then that in this case the
sphere of love is narrowed, whilst that of obedience is amplified, he dwelleth
upon this, wishing to give to these from their obedience, what the first have
from nature. So that what he discourseth with the servants alone[2] is not for
their masters' sakes, but for their own also, that they may make themselves the
objects of tender affection to their masters. But he sets not this forth
openly; for so he would doubtless have made them supine.
Ver. 22. "Servants," he saith, "obey in all things your masters according
to the flesh."
And see how always he sets down the names, "wives, children, servants,"
being at once a just claim upon their obedience. But that none might be pained,
he added, "to your masters according to the flesh." Thy better part, the soul,
is free, he saith; thy service is for a season. It therefore do thou subject,
that thy service be no more of constraint. "Not with eye-service, as
men-pleasers." Make, he saith, thy service which is by the law, to be from the fear of
Christ. For if when thy master seeth thee not, thou doest thy duty and what is for
his honor, it is manifest that thou doest it because of the sleepless Eye. "Not
with eye-service," he saith, "as men-pleasers"; thus implying, "it is you who
will have to sustain the damage." For hear the prophet saying, "God hath
scattered the bones of the men-pleasers." (Ps. liii. 6, Sept.) See then how he spares
them, and brings them to order. "But in singleness of heart," he saith,
"fearing God."[1] For that is not singleness, but hypocrisy, to hold one thing, and
act another; to appear one when the master is present, another when he is
absent. Therefore he said not simply, "in singleness of heart," but, "fearing God."
For this is to fear God, when, though none be seeing, we do not aught that is
evil; but if we do, we fear not God, but men. Seest thou how he bringeth them to
order?
Ver. 23. "Whatsoever ye do, work heartily, as unto the Lord, and not unto
men."
He desires to have them freed not only from hypocrisy, but also from
slothfulness. He hath made them instead of slaves free, when they need not the
superintendence of their master for the expression "heartily" means this, "with good
will," not with a slavish necessity, but with freedom, and of choice. And what
is the reward?
Ver. 24. "Knowing," he saith, "that from the Lord ye shall receive the
recompense of your[2] inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ."
For from Him also it is evident that ye shall receive the reward. And that
ye serve the Lord is plain from this.
Ver. 25. "For he that doeth wrong," he saith, "shall receive again for the
wrong that he hath done."
Here he confirmeth his former statements. For that his words may not
appear to be those of flattery, "he shall receive," he saith, "the wrong he hath
done," that is, he shall suffer punishment also, "for there is no respect of
persons."[3] For what if thou art a servant? it is no shame to thee. And truly he
might have said this to the masters, as he did in the Epistle to the Ephesians.
(Eph. vi. 9.) But here he seems to me to be alluding to the Grecian masters.
For, what if he is a Greek and thou a Christian? Not the persons but the actions
are examined, so that even in this case thou oughtest to serve with good will,
and heartily.
Chap. iv. 1. "Masters, render unto your servants that which is just and equal."
What is "just"? What is "equal"? To place them in plenty of everything,
and not allow them to stand in need of others, but to recompense them for their
labors. For, because I have said that they have their reward from God, do not
thou therefore deprive them of it. And in another place he saith, "forbearing
threatening" (Eph. vi. 9), wishing to make them more gentle; for those were
perfect men; that is, "with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured unto you."
(Matt. vii. 2.) And the words, "there is no respect of persons," are spoken with a
view to these,[4] but they are assigned to the others, in order that these may
receive them. For when we have said to one person what is applicable to
another, we have not corrected him so much, as the one who is in fault. "Ye also,"
along with them, he saith. He has here made the service common, for he saith,
"knowing that ye also have a Master in heaven."
Ver. 2. "Continue in prayer, watching therein with thanksgiving."
For, since continuing in prayers frequently makes persons listless,
therefore he saith, "watching," that is, sober, not wandering. For the devil knoweth,
he knoweth, how great a good prayer is; therefore he presseth heavily. And
Paul also knoweth how careless[5] many are when they pray, wherefore he saith,
"continue"[6] in prayer, as of somewhat laborious, "watching therein with
thanksgiving." For let this, he saith, be your work, to give thanks in your prayers
both for the seen and the unseen, and for His benefits to the willing and
unwilling, and for the kingdom, and for hell, and for tribulation, and for refreshment.
For thus is the custom of the Saints to pray, and to give thanks for the
common benefits of all.
I know a certain holy man who prayeth thus. He used to say nothing before
these words, but thus, "We give Thee thanks for all Thy benefits bestowed upon
us the unworthy, from the first day until the present, for what we know, and
what we know not, for the seen, for the unseen, for those in deed, those in word,
those with our wills, those against our wills, for all that have been bestowed
upon the unworthy, even us; for tribulations, for refreshments, for hell, for
punishment, for the kingdom of heaven. We beseech Thee to keep our soul holy,
having a pure conscience; an end worthy of thy lovingkindness. Thou that lovedst
us so as to give Thy Only-Begotten for us, grant us to become worthy of Thy
love; give us wisdom in Thy word, and in Thy fear. Only-Begotten Christ, inspire
the strength that is from Thee. Thou that gavest The Only-Begotten for us, and
hast sent Thy Holy Spirit for the remission of our sins, if in aught we have
wilfully or unwillingly transgressed, pardon, and impute it not. Remember all
that call upon Thy Name in truth; remember all that wish us well, or the contrary,
for we are all men." Then having added the Prayer[1] of the Faithful, he there
ended; having made that prayer, as a certain crowning part, and a binding
together for all. For many benefits doth God bestow upon us even against our wills;
many also, yea more, without our knowledge even. For when we pray for one
thing, and He doeth to us the reverse, it is plain that He doeth us good even when
we know it not.
Ver. 3. "Withal praying for us also." See his lowlymindedness; he sets
himself after them.
"That God may open to us a door for the word, to speak the mystery of
Christ." He means an entrance, and boldness in speaking. Wonderful! The great
athlete said not "that I may be freed from my bonds," but being in bonds he exhorted
others; and exhorted them for a great object, that himself might get boldness
in speaking. Both the two are great, both the quality of the person, and of the
thing. Wonderful! how great is the dignity! "The mystery," he saith, "of
Christ." He shows that nothing was more dearly desired by him than this, to speak.
"For which I am also in bonds; that I may make it manifest, as I ought to
speak." (Ver. 4.) He means with much boldness of speech, and withholding nothing. His
bonds display, not obscure him. With much boldness he means. Tell me, art thou
in bonds, and dost thou exhort others? Yea, my bonds give me the greater
boldness; but I pray for God's furtherance, for I have heard the voice of Christ
saying, "When they deliver you up, be not anxious how or what ye shall speak."
(Matt. x. 19.) And see, how he has expressed himself in metaphor, "that God may
open to us a door for the word"; (see, how unassuming he is; even in his bonds,
how he expresses himself;) that is, that He would soften their hearts. Still he
said not so; but, "that He would give us boldness"; out of lowlymindedness he
thus spoke, and that which he had, he asks to receive.
He shows in this Epistle, why Christ came not in those times, in that he
calleth the former things "shadow, but the body," saith he, "is of Christ." So
that it was necessary they should be formed to habits under the shadow. At the
same time also he exhibits the greatest proof of the love he bears to them; "in
order that ye," he saith, "may hear, for that reason, 'I am in bonds.'" Again
he sets before us those bonds of his; which I so greatly love, which rouse up
my heart, and always draw me into longing to see Paul bound, and in his bonds
writing, and preaching, and baptizing, and catechizing. In his bonds he was
referred to on behalf of the Churches everywhere; in his bonds he builded up
incalculably. Then was he rather at large. For hear him saying, "So that most of the
brethren being confident through my bonds are more abundantly bold to speak the
word without fear." (Phil. i. 14.) And again he makes the same avowal of
himself, saying, "For when I am weak, then am I strong." (2 Cor. xii. 10.) Wherefore
he said also, "But the word of God is not bound." (2 Tim. ii. 9.) He was bound
with malefactors, with prisoners, with murderers; he, the teacher of the world,
he that had ascended into the third heaven, that had heard the unspeakable
words, was bound. (2 Cor. xii. 4.) But then was his course the swifter. He that
was bound, was now loosed; he that was unbound, was bound. For he indeed was
doing what he would; whilst the other prevented him not, nor accomplished his own
purpose.
What art thou about, O senseless one? Think-est thou he is a fleshly
runner? Doth he strive in our race-course? His course of life is in heaven; him that
runneth in heaven, things on earth cannot bind nor hold. Seest thou not this
sun? Enclose his beams with fetters! stay him from his course! Thou canst not.
Then neither canst thou Paul! Yea, much less this one than that, for this
enjoyeth more of Providence than that, seeing he beareth to us light, not such as
that is, but the true.
Where now are they who are unwilling to suffer aught for Christ? But why
do I say "suffer," seeing that they are unwilling even to give up their wealth?
In time past Paul also used to bind, and cast into prison; but since he is
become Christ's servant, he glorieth no more of doing, but of suffering. And this,
moreover, is marvelous in the Preaching, when it is thus raised up and
increased by the sufferers themselves, and not by the persecutors. Where hath any seen
such contests as this? He that suffereth ill, conquers; he that doeth ill, is
worsted. Brighter is this man than the other. Through bonds the Preaching
entered. "I am not ashamed "(Rom. i. 16), yea, I glory even, he saith, in preaching
The Crucified. For consider, I pray: the whole world left those who were at
large, and went over to those that are bound; turning away from the imprisoners, it
honoreth those laden with chains; hating the crucifiers, it worships the
Crucified.
Not the only marvel is it that the preachers were fishermen, that they
were ignorant; but that there were also other hindrances, hindrances too by
nature; still the increase was all the more abundant. Not only was their ignorance no
hindrance; but even it itself caused the Preaching to be manifested. For hear
Luke saying, "And perceiving that they were unlearned and ignorant men, they
marveled." (Acts iv. 13.) Not only were bonds no hindrance, but even of itself
this made them more confident. Not so bold were the disciples when Paul was at
large, as when he was bound. For he saith, they "are more abundantly bold to
speak the word" of God "without fear." (Phil. i. 14.) Where are they that will
gainsay the divinity of the Preaching? Was not their ignorance enough to procure
them to be condemned? Would it not then in this case too, affright them? For ye
know that by these two passions the many are possessed, vainglory and cowardice.
Suppose their ignorance suffered them not to feel ashamed, still the dangers
must have put them in fear.
But, saith one, they wrought miracles. Ye do believe then that they
wrought miracles. But did they not work miracles? This is a greater miracle than to
work them, if men were drawn to them without miracles. Socrates too amongst the
Greeks was put in bonds. What then? Did not his disciples straightway flee to
Megara? Assuredly, why not? They admitted[1] his arguments about immortality.
But see here. Paul was put in bonds, and his disciples waxed the more confident,
with reason, for they saw that the Preaching was not hindered. For, canst thou
put the tongue in bonds? hereby chiefly it runneth. For as, except thou have
bound the feet of a runner, thou hast not prevented him from running; so, except
thou have bound the tongue of an evangelist, thou hast not hindered him from
running. And as the former, if thou have bound his loins, runneth on the rather,
and is supported, so too the latter preacheth the rather, and with greater
boldness.
A prisoner is in fear, when there is nothing beyond bonds: but one that
despiseth death, how should he be bound? They did the same as if they had put in
bonds the shadow of Paul, and had gagged its mouth. For it was a fighting with
shadows; for he was both more tenderly regretted by his friends, and more
reverenced by his enemies, as bearing the prize for courage in his bonds. And a
crown binds the head; but it disgraces it not, yea rather, it makes it brilliant.
Against their wills they crowned him with his chain. For, tell me, was it
possible he could fear iron, who braved the adamantine gates of death? Come we,
beloved, to emulate these bonds. As many of you women as deck yourselves with
trinkets of gold, long ye for the bonds of Paul. Not so glitters the collar round
your necks, as the grace of these iron bonds gleamed about his soul! If any longs
for those, let him hate these. For what communion hath softness with courage;
tricking out of the body with philosophy? Those bonds Angels reverence, these
they even make a mock of; those bonds are wont to draw up from earth to heaven;
these bonds draw down to earth from heaven. For in truth these are bonds, not
those; those are ornament, these are bonds; these, along with the body, afflict
the soul also; those, along with the body, adorn as well the soul.
Wouldest thou be convinced that those are ornament? Tell me which would
more have won the notice of the spectators? thou or Paul? And why do I say,
"thou"? the queen[2] herself who is all bedecked with gold would not have attracted
the spectators so much; but if it had chanted that both Paul in his bonds and
the queen had entered the Church at the same time, all would have removed their
eyes from her to him; and with good reason. For to see a man of a nature
greater than human, and having nought of man, but an angel upon earth, is more
admirable than to see a woman decked with finery. For such indeed one may see both in
theaters, and in pageants, and at baths, and many places; but whoso seeth a
man with bonds upon him, and deeming himself to have the greatest of ornaments,
and not giving way under his bonds, doth not behold a spectacle of earth, but
one worthy of the heavens. The soul that is in that way attired looks about,--who
hath seen? who not seen?--is filled with pride, is possessed with anxious
thoughts, is bound with countless other passions: but he that hath these bonds on
him, is without pride: his soul exulteth, is freed from every anxious care, is
joyous, hath its gaze on heaven, is clad with wings. If any one were to give me
the choice of seeing Paul either stooping out of heaven, and uttering his
voice, or out of the prison, I would choose the prison. For they of heaven visit him
when he is in the prison. The bonds of Paul were the bond of the Preaching,
that chain of his was its foundation. Long we for those bonds!
And how, some one says, may this be? If we break up and dash in pieces
these. No good results to us from these bonds, but even harm. These will show us
as prisoners There; but the bonds of Paul will loose those bonds; she that is
bound with these here, with those deathless bonds shall she also be bound There,
both hands and feet; she that has been bound with Paul's, shall have them in
that day as it were an ornament about her. Free both thyself from thy bonds, and
the poor man from his hunger. Why rivetest thou fast the chains of thy sins?
Some one saith, flow? When thou wearest gold whilst another is perishing, when
thou, to get thee vainglory, takest so much gold, whilst another hast not even
what to eat, hast thou not wedged fast thy sins? Put Christ about thee, and not
gold; where Mammon is, there Christ is not, where Christ is, there Mammon is
not. Wouldest not thou put on the King of all Himself? If one had offered thee the
purple, and the diadem, wouldest thou not have taken them before all the gold
in the world? I give thee not the regal ornaments, but I offer thee to put on
the King Himself. And how can one put Christ on, doth any say? Hear Paul saying,
"As many of you as were baptized into Christ, did put on Christ." (Gal. iii.
27.) Hear the Apostolical precept, "Make not provision for the flesh to fulfill
the lusts thereof." from. xiii. 14.) Thus doth one put on Christ, if one
provide not for the flesh unto its lusts. If thou have put on Christ, even the demons
will fear thee; but if gold, even men will laugh thee to scorn: if thou have
put on Christ, men also will reverence thee.
Wouldest thou appear fair and comely? Be content with the Creator's
fashioning. Why dost thou overlay these bits of gold, as if about to put to rights
God's creation? Wouldest thou appear comely? Clothe thee in alms; clothe thee in
benevolence; clothe thee in modesty, humbleness. These are all more precious
than gold; these make even the beautiful yet more comely; these make even the ill
formed to be well formed. For when any one looks upon a countenance with good
will, he gives his judgment from love; but an evil woman, even though she be
beautiful, none can call beautiful; for the mind being confounded pronounceth not
its sentence aright.
That Egyptian woman of old was adorned; Joseph too was adorned; which of
them was the more beautiful? I say not when she was in the palace, and he in the
prison.[1] He was naked, but clothed in the garments of chastity; she was
clothed, but more unseemly than if she had been naked; for she had not modesty.
When thou hast excessively adorned thee, O woman, then thou art become more
unseemly than a naked one; for thou hast stripped thee of thy fair adorning. Eve
also was naked; but when she had clothed herself, then was she more unseemly, for
when she was naked indeed, she was adorned with the glory of God; but when she
had clothed herself with the garment of sin, then was she unseemly. And thou,
when arraying thyself in the garment of studied finery, dost then appear more
unseemly. For that costliness availeth not to make any appear beautiful, but that
it is possible even for one dressed out to be even more unseemly than if
naked, tell me now; if thou hadst ever put on the dresses of a piper or a
flute-player, would it not have been unseemliness? And yet those dresses are of gold; but
for this very reason it were unseemliness, because they are of gold. For the
costliness suits well with people on the stage, tragedians, players, mimes,
dancers, fighters with wild beasts; but to a woman that is a believer, there are
given other robes from God, the Only-Begotten Son of God Himself. "For," he
saith, "as many as were baptized into Christ, did put on Christ." (Gal. iii. 27.)
Tell me, if one had given thee kingly apparel, and thou hadst taken a beggar's[2]
dress, and put this on above it, wouldest thou not, besides the unseemliness,
have also been punished for it? Thou hast put on the Lord of Heaven, and of the
Angels, and art thou still busied about earth?
I have spoken thus, because love of ornament is of itself a great evil,
even were no other gendered by it, and it were possible to hold it without peril,
(for it inciteth to vainglory and to pride,) but now many other evils are
gendered by finery, evil suspicions, unseasonable expenses, evil speakings,
occasions of rapacity. For why dost thou adorn thyself? Tell me. Is it that thou
mayest please thy husband? Then do it at home. But here the reverse is the case. For
if thou wouldest please thine own husband, please not others; but if thou
please others, thou wilt not be able to please thine own. So that thou shouldest
put away all thine ornaments, when thou goest to the forum or proceedest to the
church. Besides, please not thy husband by those means which harlots use, but by
those rather which wives that are free employ. For wherein, tell me, doth a
wife differ from a harlot? In that the one regardeth one thing only, namely, that
by the beauty of her person she may attract to herself him whom she loves;
whilst the other both ruleth the house, and shareth in the children, and in all
other things.
Hast thou a little daughter? look to it lest she inherit the mischief, for
they are wont to form their manners according to their nurture, and to imitate
their mothers' behavior. Be a pattern to thy daughter of modesty, deck thyself
with that adorning, and see that thou despise the other; for that is in truth
an ornament, the other a disfigurement. Enough has been said. Now God that made
the world, and hath given to us the ornament[1] of the soul, adorn us, and
clothe us with His own glory, that all shining brightly in good works, and living
unto His glory, we may send up glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the
Holy Spirit, now and always, &c.
HOMILY XI.
COLOSSIANS iv. 5, 6.
" Walk in wisdom toward them that are without, redeeming the time. Let your
speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to
answer each one."
WHAT Christ said to His disciples, that doth Paul also now advise. And
what did Christ say? "Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be
ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves." (Matt. x. 16.) That is,
be upon your guard, giving them no handle against you. For therefore it is
added, "towards them that are without," in order that we may know that against our
own members we have no need of so much caution as against those without. For
where brethren are, there are both many allowances and kindnesses. There is
indeed need of caution even here; but much more without, for it is not the same to
be amongst enemies and foes, and amongst friends.
Then because he had alarmed them, see how again he encourages them;
"Redeeming," he saith, "the time": that is, the present time is short. Now this he
said, not wishing them to be crafty, nor hypocrites, (for this is not a part of
wisdom, but of senselessness,) but what? In matters wherein they harm you not,
he means, give them no handle; as he says also, when writing to the Romans,
"Render to all their dues: tribute to whom tribute is due, custom to whom custom,
honor to whom honor." from. xiii. 7.) On account of the Preaching alone have
thou war, he saith, let this war have none other origin. For though they were to
become our foes for other causes besides, yet neither shall we have a reward,
and they will become worse, and will seem to have just complaints against us. For
instance, if we pay not the tribute, if we render not the honors that are due,
if we be not lowly. Seest thou not Paul, how submissive he is, where he was
not likely to harm the Preaching. For hear him saying to Agrippa, I think myself
happy, because I shall answer for myself this day before thee, especially
because I know thee to be expert in all customs and questions which are among the
Jews." (Acts xxvi. 2, 3.) But had he thought it his duty to insult the ruler, he
would have spoiled everything. And hear too those of blessed Peter's company,
how gently they answer the Jews, saying, "we must obey God rather than men."
(Acts v. 29.) And yet men who had renounced their own lives, might both have
insulted, and have done anything whatever; but for this object they had renounced
their lives, not that they might win vainglory, (for that way had been
vainglorious,) but that they might preach and speak all things with boldness.That other
course marks want of moderation.
"Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt"; that is, that
this graciousness may not lapse into indifferentism. For it is possible to be
simply agreeable, it is possible also to be so with due seemliness. "That ye may
know how ye ought to answer each one." So that one ought not to discourse
alike to all, Greeks, I mean, and Brethren. By no means, for this were the very
extreme of senselessness.
Ver. 7. "All my affairs shall Tychicus make known unto you, the beloved
brother and faithful minister and fellow-servant in the Lord."
Admirable! how great is the wisdom of Paul! Observe, he doth not put
everything into his Epistles, but only things necessary and urgent. In the first
place, being desirous of not drawing them out to a length; and secondly, to make
his messenger more respected, by his having also somewhat to relate; thirdly,
showing his own affection towards him; for he would not else have entrusted these
communications to him. Then, there were things which ought not to be declared
in writing. "The beloved brother," he saith. If beloved, he knew all, and he
concealed nothing from him. "And faithful minister and fellow-servant in the
Lord." If "faithful," he will speak no falsehood; if "a fellow-servant," he hath
shared his trials, so that he has brought together from all sides the grounds of
trustworthiness.
Ver. 8. "Whom I have sent unto you for this very purpose."
Here he shows his great love, seeing that for this purpose he sent him,
and this was the cause of his journey; and so when writing to the Thessalonians,
he said, "Wherefore when we could no longer forbear, we thought it good to be
left behind at Athens alone, and sent Timothy our brother." (1 Thess. iii. 1,
2.) And to the Ephesians he sends this very same person, and for the very same
cause, "That he might know your estate, and comfort your hearts." (Eph. vi. 21,
22.) See what he saith, not "that ye might know my estate," but "that I might
know yours." So in no place doth he mention what is his own. He shows that they
were in trials too, by the expression, "comfort your hearts."
Ver. 9. "With Onesimus, the beloved and faithful brother, who is one of
you. They shall make known unto you all things that are done here. "
Onesimus is the one about whom, writing to Philemon, he said, "Whom I
would fain have kept with me, that in thy behalf he might minister unto me in the
bonds of the Gospel: but without thy mind I would do nothing." (Philem. 13, 14.)
And he adds too the praise of their city, that they might not only not[1] be
ashamed, but even pride themselves on him. "Who is one of you," he saith. "They
shall make known unto you all things that are done here."
Ver. 10. "Aristarchus my fellow-prisoner saluteth you."
Nothing can surpass this praise. This is he that was brought up from
Jerusalem with him. This man hath said a greater thing than the prophets; for they
call themselves "strangers and foreigners," but this one calleth himself even a
prisoner. Just like a prisoner of war he was dragged up and down,[2] and lay at
every one's will to suffer evil of them, yea rather worse even than prisoners.
For those indeed their enemies, after taking them, treat with much attention,
having a care for them as their own property: but Paul, as though an enemy and
a foe, all men dragged up and down, beating him, scourging, insulting, and
maligning. This was a consolation to those also (to whom he wrote), when their
master even is in such circumstances.
"And Mark, the cousin of Barnabas"; even this man he hath praised still
from his relationship, for Barnabas was a great man; "touching whom ye received
commandments; if he come unto you, receive him." Why? would they not have
received him? Yes, but he means, with much attention; and this shows the man to be
great. Whence they received these commandments, he does not say. Ver. 11. "And
Jesus which is called Justus." This man was probably a Corinthian. Next, he
bestows a common praise on all, having already spoken that of each one in
particular; "who are of the circumcision: these only are my fellow-workers unto the
kingdom of God, men that have been a comfort unto me." After having said,
"fellow-prisoner"; in order that he may not therewith depress the soul of his hearers,
see how by this expression he rouseth them up. "Fellow-workers," he saith, "unto
the kingdom of God." So that being partakers of the trials, they become
partakers of the kingdom. "Who have been a comfort to me." He shows them to be great
persons, seeing that to Paul they have been a comfort.
But[3] let us see the wisdom of Paul. "Walk in wisdom" he saith, "towards
them that are without, redeeming the time." (Ver. 5.) That is, the time is not
yours, but theirs. Do not then wish to have your own way,[4] but redeem the
time. And he said not simply, "Buy," but "redeem," making it yours after another
manner. For it were the part of excessive madness, to invent occasions of war
and enmity. For over and above the undergoing of superfluous and profitless
dangers, there is this additional harm, that the Greeks will not come over to us.
For when thou art amongst the brethren, reason is thou shouldest be bold; but
when without, thou oughtest not to be so.
Seest thou how everywhere he speaks of those without, the Greeks?
Wherefore also when writing to Timothy, he said, "Moreover, he must have good testimony
from them that are withOut." (1 Tim. iii. 7.) And again, "For what have I to
do with judging them that are without." (1 Cor. v. 12.) "Walk in wisdom," he
saith, "toward them that are without." For "without," they are, even though they
live in the same world with us, seeing they are without the kingdom, and the
paternal mansion. And he comforts them withal, by calling the others "without," as
he said above, "Your life is hid with Christ in God." (Col. iii. 3.)
Then, he saith, seek ye glory, then honors, then all those other things,
but not so now, but give them up to those without. Next, lest thou think that he
is speaking of money, he adds, "Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned
with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer each one." That it may not
be full of hypocrisy, for this is not "grace," nor "a seasoning with salt." For
instance, if it be needful to pay court to any one without incurring danger,
refuse not [to do so]; if the occasion require that thou discourse civilly,
think not the doing so flattery, do everything that pertaineth to honor, so that
piety be not injured. Seest thou not how Daniel payeth court to an impious man?
Seest thou not the three children, how wisely they bore themselves, showing
both courage, and boldness in speaking, and yet nothing rash nor galling, for so
it had not been boldness, but vainglory. "That ye may know," he saith, "how ye
ought to answer every man." For the ruler ought to be answered in one way, the
ruled in another, the rich in one way, the poor in another. Wherefore? Because
the souls of those who are rich, and in authority, are weaker, more inflammable,
more fluctuating, so that towards them, one should use condescension; those of
the poor, and the ruled, firmer and more intelligent, so that to these one
should use greater boldness of speech; looking to one thing, their edification.
Not that because one is rich, another poor, the former is to be honored more, the
latter less, but because of his weakness, let the former be supported, the
latter not so: for instance, when there is no cause for it, do not call the Greek
"polluted," nor be insulting; but if thou be asked concerning his doctrine,
answer that it is polluted, and impious; but when none asketh thee, nor forceth
thee to speak, it becomes thee not causelessly to challenge to thee his enmity.
For what need is there to prepare for thyself gratuitous hostilities? Again, if
thou art instructing any one; speak on the subject at present before thee,
otherwise be silent.[1] If the speech be "seasoned with salt," should it fall into
a soul that is of loose texture, it will brace up its slackness; into one that
is harsh, it will smooth its ruggedness. Let it be gracious, and so neither
hard, nor yet weak, but let it have both sternness and pleasantness therewith. For
if one be immoderately stern, he doth more harm than good; and if he be
immoderately complaisant, he giveth more pain than pleasure, so that everywhere there
ought to be moderation. Be not downcast, and sour vis-aged, for this is
offensive; nor yet be wholly relaxed, for this is open to contempt and treading under
foot; but, like the bee, culling the virtue of each, of the one its
cheerfulness, of the other its gravity, keep clear of the fault. For if a physician
dealeth not with all bodies alike, much more ought not a teacher. And yet better
will the body bear unsuitable medicines, than the soul language; for instance, a
Greek cometh to thee, and becomes thy friend; discourse not at all with him on
this subject, until he have become a close friend, and after he hath become so,
do it gradually.
See, when Paul also had come to Athens, how he discoursed with them. He
said not, "O polluted, and all-polluted"; but what? "Ye men of Athens, in all
things I perceive that ye are somewhat superstitious."[2] (Acts xvii. 22.) Again,
when to insult was needful, he refused not; but with great vehemency he said to
Elymas, "O full of all guile and all villainy, son of the devil, enemy of all
righteousness." For as to have insulted those had been senselessness, so not to
have insulted this one had been softness. Again, art thou brought unto a ruler
on a matter of business, see that thou render him the honors that are his due.
Ver. 9. "They shall make known unto you," he saith, "all things that are
done here." Why didst thou not come with them, says one? But what is, "They
shall make known unto you all things"? My bonds, that is, and all the other things
that detain me. I then, who pray to see them, who also send others, should not
myself have remained behind, had not some great necessity detained me. And yet
this is not the language of accusations yes, of vehement accusation. For the
assuring them that he had both fallen into trials, and was bearing them nobly, is
the part of one who was confirming the fact, and lifting up again their souls.
Ver. 9. "With Onesimus," he saith, "the beloved, and faithful brother."
Paul calleth a slave, brother: with reason; seeing that he styleth himself
the servant of the faithful. (2 Cor. iv. 5.) Bring we down all of us our
pride, tread we under foot our boastfulness. Paul nameth himself a slave, he that is
worth the world, and ten thousands of heavens; and dost thou entertain high
thoughts? He that seizeth all things for spoil as he will, he that hath the first
place in the kingdom of heaven, he that was crowned, he that ascended into the
third heaven, calleth servants, "brethren," and "fellow-servants." Where is
your madness? where is your arrogance?
So trustworthy was Onesimus become, as to be entrusted even with such
things as these.
Ver. 10. "And Mark," he saith, "the cousin of Barnabas, touching whom ye
received commandments, receive him." Perhaps they had received commandments from
Barnabas.
Ver. 11. "Who are of the circumcision." He represseth the swelling pride
of the Jews, and inspiriteth the souls of these, [the Colossians,] because few
of them were of the circumcision, the greater number of the Gentiles.
"Men that have been," he saith, "a comfort unto me." He shows himself to
be set in the midst of great trials. So that neither is this a small thing. When
we comfort the Saints by presence, by words, by assiduous attendance when we
suffer adversity together with them, (for he saith, "as bound with those in
bonds"; [Heb. xiii. 3]) when we make their sufferings ours, we shall also be
partakers in their crowns. Hast thou not been dragged to the stadium? Hast thou not
entered into the lists? It is another that strips himself, another that wrestles
but if thou be so minded, thou too shall be a sharer. Anoint him, become his
favorer and partisan, from without the lists shout loudly for him, stir up his
strength, refresh his spirit. It follows that the same things should be done in
all other cases. For Paul stood not in need, but in order to stimulate them he
said these things. Thou therefore in the case of all others, stop the mouths of
those who would abuse such an one, procure favorers for him, receive him as he
cometh forth with great attention, so shall thou, be a sharer in his crowns,
so, in his glory; and if thou do no other thing, but only hast pleasure in what
is done, even thus thou sharest in no common degree, for thou hast contributed
love, the sum of all good things.
For if they that weep seem to share in the grief of those in sorrow, and
gratify them mightily, and remove the excess of their woe, much more do they
also that rejoice with others, make their pleasure greater. For how great an evil
it is not to have companions in sorrow, hear the Prophet saying, "And I looked
for one to lament with me, but there was none."[1] Wherefore Paul also saith,
"Rejoice with them that rejoice; and weep with them that weep." (Rom. xii. 15.)
Increase their pleasure. If thou see thy brother in good esteem, say not, "the
esteem is his, why should I rejoice." These words are not those of a brother,
but of an enemy. If thou be so minded, it is not his, but thine. Thou hast the
power of making it greater, if thou be not downcast, but pleased, if thou be
cheerfill, if joyous. And that it is so, is evident from this; the envious envy
not those only who are in good esteem, but those as well who rejoice at their
good esteem, so conscious are they that these also are interested in that good
esteem; and these are they who do glory most in it. For the other even blushes
when praised exceedingly; but these with great pleasure pride themselves upon it.
See ye not in the case of athletes, how the one is crowned, the other is not
crowned; but the grief and the joy is amongst the favorers and disfavorers,[2]
these are they that leap, they that caper?
See how great a thing is the not envying. The toil is another's, the
pleasure is thine; another wears the crown, and thou caperest, thou art gay. For
tell me, seeing it is another that hath conquered, why dost thou leap? But they
also know well, that what hath been done is common. Therefore they do not accuse
this man[3] indeed, but they try to beat down the victory; and you hear them
saying such words as these, "(There) I expunged thee," and, "I beat thee down."
Although the deed was another's, still the praise is thine. But if in things
without, not to envy, but to make another's good one's own, is so great a good,
much more in the victory of the devil over us he breathes the more furiously,
evidently because we are more pleased.[4] Wicked though he is, and bitter, he
well knows that this pleasure is great. Wouldest thou pain him? Be glad and
rejoice. Wouldest thou gladden him? Be sad-visaged. The pain he has from thy
brother's victory, thou soothest by thy sadness; thou standest with him, severed from
thy brother, thou workest greater mischief than he. For it is not the same for
one that is an enemy to do the deeds of an enemy, and for a friend to stand with
an enemy; such an one is more detestable than an enemy. If thy brother have
gained good reputation[5] either by speaking, or by brilliant[6] or successful
achievement, become thou a sharer in his reputation, show that he is a member of
thine.
"And how?" saith one, "for the reputation is not mine." Never speak so.
Compress thy lips. If thou hadst been near me, thou that speakest on that wise, I
would have even put my hand over thy lips: lest the enemy should hear thee.
Oftentimes we have enmities with one another, and we discover them not to our
enemies; dost thou then discover thine to the devil? Say not so, think not so; but
the very reverse: "he is one of my members, the glory passes on to the body."
"How then is it," saith one, "that those without are not so minded?" Because of
thy fault: when they see thee counting his pleasure not thine own, they too
count it not thine: were they to see thee appropriating it, they durst not do so,
but thou wouldest become equally illustrious with him. Thou hast not gained
reputation by speaking; but by sharing in his joy thou hast gained more renown
than he. For if love be a great thing, and the sum of all, thou hast received the
crown this gives; he, that for oratory, thou, that for exceeding love; he
displayed force of words, but thou by deeds hast cast down envy, hast trodden under
foot the evil eye. So that in reason thou oughtest rather to be crowned than
he, thy contest is the more brilliant; thou hast not only trodden under foot
envy, but thou hast even done somewhat else. He hath one crown only, but thou two,
and those both brighter than his one. What are these? One, that which thou
wonnest against envy, another, which thou art encircled with by love. For the
sharing in his joy is a proof not only of thy being free from envy, but also of
being rooted in love. Him ofttimes some human passion sorely disquieteth,
vainglory for instance; but thou art free from every passion, for it is not of
vainglory that thou rejoicest at another's good. Hath he righted up the Church, tell
me? hath he increased the congregation? Praise him; again thou hast a twofold
crown; thou hast struck down envy; thou hast enwreathed thee with love. Yea, I
implore and beseech thee. Wilt thou hear of a third crown even? Him, men below
applaud, thee, the Angels above. For it is not the same thing, to make a display
of eloquence, and to rule the passions. This praise is for a season, that for
ever; this, of men, that, of God; this man is crowned openly; but thou art
crowned in secret, where thy Father seeth. If it were possible to have peeled off the
body and seen the soul of each, I would have shown thee that this is more
dignified than the other, more resplendent.
Tread we under foot the goads of envy, we advantage ourselves, beloved,
ourselves shall we enwreath with the crown. He that envieth another tighteth with
God, not with him; for when he seeth him to have grace, and is grieved, and
wisheth the Church pulled down, he fighteth not with him, but with God. For tell
me, if one should adorn a king's daughter, and by his adorning and gracing her,
gain for himself renown; and another person should wish her to be ill attired,
and him to be unable to adorn her; against whom would he have been plotting
mischief? Against the other? or against her and her father? So too now, thou that
enviest, tightest with the Church, thou warrest with God. For, since with the
good repute of thy brother is interwoven also the Church's profit, need is,
that if the one be undone, the other shall be undone also. So that, in this regard
also, thou doest a deed of Satan, seeing thou plottest mischief against the
body of Christ. Art thou pained at this man? Wrongly, when he hath in nothing
wronged thee; yea, much rather, thou art pained at Christ. Wherein hath He wronged
thee, that thou wilt not suffer His body to be decked with beauty? that thou
wilt not suffer His bride to be adorned? Consider, I pray thee, the punishment,
how sore. Thou gladden-est thine enemies; and him too himself, the man in good
esteem, whom through thy envy thou wishest to grieve, thou dost the rather
gladden; thou dost by thine envy the rather show that he is in good esteem, for
otherwise thou wouldest not have envied him. Thou showest the rather that thou art
in punishment.
I am ashamed indeed to exhort you from such motives, but seeing our
weakness is so great, let us be instructed even from these, and free ourselves from
this destructive passion. Grievest thou that he is in good esteem? then why
swell-est thou that esteem by envying? Wishest thou to punish him? Why then showest
thou that thou art pained? Why punish thyself before him, whom thou wouldest
not have well esteemed? Thereafter double will be his pleasure, and thy
punishment; not only because thou provest him to be great; but because thou begettest
in him yet another pleasure, by punishing thyself; and again, at what thou art
pained, he is pleased, whilst thou enviest. See how we deal ourselves heavy
blows without perceiving it! He is an enemy. And yet, why an enemy? What wrong hath
he done? Still, however, by this we make our enemy the more illustrious, and
thereby punish ourselves the more. And herein again we punish ourselves, if we
have discovered that he knows it. For perhaps he is not pleased,[1] but we
thinking him to be so, are again pained on that account. Cease then your envying.
Why inflictest thou wounds upon thyself?
Think we of these things, beloved; of those two crowns for them that envy
not; of those praises from men, of those from God; of the evils that come of
envying; and so shall we be able to quell the brute, and to be in good esteem
before God, and to obtain the same things with those who are of good esteem. For
perhaps we shall obtain them, and if we obtain them not, it will be for our
advantage; still, even so, we shall be able, if we have lived to the glory of God,
to obtain the good things promised to them that love Him, through the grace and
love toward man of our Lord Jesus Christ, with whom, &c.
HOMILY XII.
COLOSSIANS iv. 12, 13.
"Epaphras, who is one of you, a servant of Christ Jesus, saluteth you, always
striving for you in his prayers, that ye may stand perfect and fully assured in
all the will of God. For I bear him witness, that he hath much zeal[1] for
you, and for them in Laodicea, and for them in Hierapolis."
In the commencement of this Epistle also, he commended this man for his
love; for even to praise is a sign of love; thus in the beginning he said "Who
also declared unto us your love in the Spirit." (Col. i. 8.) To pray for one is
also a sign of love, and causeth love again. He commends him moreover in order
to open a door to his teachings, for reverendness in the teacher is the
disciples' advantage; and so again is his saying,[2] "one of you," in order that they
might pride themselves upon the man, as producing such men. And he saith,
"always striving for you in prayers." He said not simply "praying," but "striving,"
trembling and fearing. "For I bear him witness," he saith, "that he hath much
zeal for you." A trustworthy witness. "That he hath," he saith, "much zeal for
you," that is, that he loveth you exceedingly; and burneth with passionate
affection for you. "And them in Laodicea, and them in Hierapolis." He commendeth him
to those also. But whence were they to know this? They would assuredly have
heard; however, they would also learn it when the Epistle was read. For he said,
"Cause that it be read also in the church of the Laodiceans." "That ye may stand
perfect," he saith. At once he both accuseth them, and without offensiveness
gives them advice and counsel. For it is possible both to be perfect, and withal
not to stand, as if one were to know all, and still be wavering; it is
possible also not to be perfect, and yet to stand, as if one were to know a part, and
stand [not[3]] firmly. But this man prayeth for both: "That ye may stand
perfect," he saith. See how again he has reminded them of what he said about the
Angels, and about life. "And fully assured," he saith, "in all the will of God." It
is not enough, simply to do His will. He that is "filled," suffereth not any
other will to be within him, for if so, he is not wholly filled. "For I bear him
witness," he saith, "that he hath much zeal." Both "zeal," and "great"; both
are intensitive. As he saith himself, when writing to the Corinthians, "For I am
jealous[4] over you with a godly jealousy." (2 Cor. xi. 2.)
Ver. 14. "Luke, the beloved physician, saluteth you." This is the
Evangelist. It is not to lower this man that he placeth him after, but to raise the
other, viz. Epaphroditus. It is probable that there were others called by this
name.[5] "And Demas," he says. After saying, "Luke, the physician, saluteth you,"
he added, "the beloved." And no small praise is this, but be beloved of Paul
even great exceedingly
Ver. 15. "Salute the brethren that are in Laodicea, and Nymphas, and the
Church that is in their house."
See how he cements, and knits them together with one another, not by
salutation only, but also by interchanging his Epistles. Then again he pays a
compliment by addressing him individually. And this he doth not without a reason, but
in order to lead the others also to emulate his zeal. For it is not a small
thing not to be numbered with the rest. Mark further how he shows the man to be
great, seeing his house was a church.
Ver. 14. "And when this Epistle hath been read among you, cause that it be
read also in the church of the Laodiceans." I suppose there are some of the
things therein written, which it was needful that those also should hear. And
they would have the greater advantage of recognizing their own errors in the
charges brought against others.
"And that ye also read the Epistle from Laodicea." Some say that this is
not Paul's to them, but theirs to Paul, for he said not that to the Laodiceans,
but that written "from Laodicea."
Ver. 17. "And say to Archippus, Take heed to the ministry which thou hast
received in the Lord, that thou fulfill it." Wherefore doth he not write to
him? Perhaps he needed it not, but only a bare reminding, so as to be more
diligent.
Ver. 18. "The salutation of me, Paul, with mine own hand." This is a proof
of their sincerity and affection; that they both looked at his handwriting,
and that with emotion. "Remember my bonds." Wonderful! How great the consolation!
For this is enough to cheer them on to all things, and make them bear
themselves more nobly in their trials; but he made them not only the braver, but also
the more nearly interested. "Grace be with you. Amen."
It is great praise, and greater than all the rest, his saying of Epaphras,
"who is [one] of you, a servant of Christ."[1] And he calleth him a minister
for them, like as he termeth himself also a minister of the Church, as when he
saith, "Whereof I Paul was made a minister." (Col. i. 23.) To the same dignity
he advances this man; and above he calleth him a "fellow-servant" (Col. i. 7),
and here, "a servant." "Who is of you," he saith, as if speaking to a mother,
and saying, "who is of thy womb." But this praise might have gendered envy;
therefore he commendeth him not from these things only, but also from what had
regard to themselves; and so he does away with envy, both in the former place, and
here. "Always," he saith, "striving for you," not now only, whilst with us, to
make a display; nor yet only whilst with you, to make a display before you. By
saying, "striving," he hath showed his great earnestness. Then, that he might
not seem to be flattering them, he added, "that he hath much zeal for you, and
for them in Laodicea, and for them in Hierapolis." And the words, "that ye may
stand perfect," are not words of flattery, but of a reverend teacher. Both "fully
assured" he saith, "and perfect." The one he granted them, the other he said
was lacking. And he said not, "that ye be not shaken," but, "that ye may stand."
Their being saluted, however, by many, is refreshing to them, seeing that not
only their friends from among themselves; but others also, remember them.
"And say to Archippus, Take heed to the ministry which thou hast received
in the Lord." His chief aim is to subject them to him[2] entirely. For they
could no more have complaint against him for rebuking them, when they themselves
had taken it all upon them; for it is not reasonable to talk to the disciples
about the teacher. But to stop their mouths, he writes thus to them; "Say to
Archippus," he saith, "Take heed." This word is everywhere used to alarm; as when
he saith, "Take heed of dogs." (Phil. iii. 2.) "Take heed lest there shall be
any one that maketh spoil of you." (Col. ii. 8.) "Take heed lest by any means
this liberty of yours become a stumblingblock to the weak." (1 Cor. viii. 9.) And
he always so expresses himself when he would terrify. "Take heed," he saith,
"to the ministry which thou hast received in the Lord, that thou fulfill it." He
doth not even allow him the power of choosing, as he saith himself, "For if I
do this of mine own will, I have a reward: but if not of mine own will, I have a
stewardship entrusted to me." (1 Cor. ix. 17.) "That thou fulfill it,"
continually using diligence. "Which thou hast received in the Lord, that thou fulfill
it." Again, the word "in" means "through the Lord." He gave it thee, says he,
not we. He subjects them also to him,[3] when he shows that they had been
committed to his hands by God.
"Remember my bonds. Grace be with you. Amen." He hath released their
terror. For although their teacher be in bonds, yet "grace" releaseth him. This too
is of grace, the granting him to be put in bonds. For hear Luke saying, The
Apostles returned "from the presence of the council, rejoicing that, they were
counted worthy to suffer dishonor for the Name." (Acts v. 41.) For both to suffer
shame, and to be put in bonds, is indeed to be "counted worthy." For, if he
that hath one whom he loveth, deemeth it gain to suffer aught for his sake, much
rather then is it so to suffer for the sake of Christ. Repine we not then at our
tribulations for Christ's sake, but let us also remember Paul's bonds, and be
this our incitement. For instance: dost thou exhort any to give to the poor for
Christ's sake? Remind them of Paul's bonds, and bemoan thy misery and theirs,
seeing that he indeed gave up even his body to bonds for His sake, but thou
wilt not give a portion even of thy food. Art thou lifted up because of thy good
deeds? Remember Paul's bonds, that thou hast suffered nought of that kind, and
thou wilt be lifted up no more. Covetest thou any of the things that are thy
neighbor's? Remember Paul's bonds, and thou wilt see how unreasonable it is, that
whilst he was in perils, thou shouldest be in delights. Again, is thine heart
set upon self-indulgence? Picture to thy mind Paul's prison-house; thou art his
disciple, his fellow-soldier. How is it reasonable, that thy fellow-soldier
should be in bonds, and thou in luxury? Art thou in affliction? Dost thou deem
thyself forsaken? Hear Paul's bonds,[4] and thou wilt see, that to be in
affliction is no proof of being forsaken. Wouldest thou wear silken robes? Remember
Paul's bonds; and these things will appear to thee more worthless than the
filth-bespattered rags of her that sitteth apart.[5] Wouldest thou array thee with
golden trinkets? Picture to thy mind Paul's bonds, and these things will seem to
thee no better than a withered bulrush. Wouldest thou tire thine hair, and be
beautiful to see? Think of Paul's squalidness within that prison-house, and thou
wilt burn for that beauty, and deem this the extreme of ugliness, and wilt groan
bitterly through longing for those bonds. Wouldest thou daub thee with pastes
and pigments, and such like things? Think of his tears: a three-years space,
night and day, he ceased not to weep. (Acts xx. 31.) With this adorning deck thy
cheek; these tears do make it bright. I say not, that thou weep for others, (I
wish indeed it could be even so, but this is too high for thee,) but for thine
own sins I advise thee to do this. Hast thou ordered thy slave to be put in
bonds, and wast thou angry, and exasperated? Remember Paul's bonds, and thou wilt
straightway stay thine anger; remember that we are of the bound, not the
binders, of the bruised in heart, not the bruisers. Hast thou lost self-control, and
shouted loud in laughter? Think of his lamentations, and thou wilt groan; such
tears will show thee brighter far. Seest thou any persons rioting and dancing?
Remember his tears. What fountain has gushed forth so great streams as those
eyes did tears? "Remember my tears" (Acts xx. 31), he saith, as here "bonds." And
with reason he spoke thus to them, when he sent for them from Ephesus to
Miletus. For he was then speaking to teachers. He demands of those therefore, that
they should sympathize[1] also, but of these that they should only encounter
dangers.
What fountain wilt thou compare to these tears? That in Paradise, which
watereth the whole earth? But thou wilt have mentioned nothing like it. For this
fount of tears watered souls, not earth. If one were to show us Paul bathed in
tears, and groaning, would not this be better far to see, than countless choirs
gayly crowned? I am not now speaking of you; but, if one, having pulled away
from the theater and the stage some wanton fellow, burning and drunken with
carnal love, were to show him a young virgin in the very flower of her age,
surpassing her fellows, both in other respects, and in her face more than the rest of
her person, having an eye, tender and soft, that gently resteth, and gently
rolleth, moist, mild, calmly smiling, and arrayed in much modesty and much grace,
fringed with dark lashes both under and over, having an eyeball, so to speak,
alive, a forehead radiant; underneath, again, a cheek shaded to exact redness,
lying smooth as marble, and even; and then any one should show me Paul weeping;
leaving that maiden, I would have eagerly sprung away to the sight of him; for
from his eyes there beamed spiritual beauty. For that other transporteth the
souls of youths, it scorcheth and inflameth them; but this, on the contrary,
subdueth them. This maketh the eyes of the soul more beauteous, it curbeth the
belly: it filleth with the love of wisdom, with much sympathy: and it is able to
soften even a soul of adamant. With these tears the Church is watered, with
these souls are planted; yea, though there be fire sensible and substantial, yet
can these tears quench it; these tears quench the fiery darts of the wicked one.
Remember we then these tears of his, and we shall laugh to scorn all
present things. These tears did Christ pronounce blessed, saying, "Blessed are they
that mourn, and blessed are they that weep, for they shall laugh." (Matt. v. 4;
Luke vi. 21.) Such tears did Isaiah too, and Jeremiah weep; and the former
said, "Leave me alone, I will weep bitterly" (Isa. xxii. 4, Sept.): and the
latter, "Who will give my head water, and mine eyes fountains of tears?" (Jer. ix.
1); as though the natural fount were not enough.
Nothing is sweeter than these tears; sweeter are they than any laughter.
They that mourn, know how great consolation it possesseth. Let us not think this
a thing to be deprecated, but one to be even exceedingly prayed for; not that
others may sin, but that, when they sin, we may be heart-broken for them.
Remember we these tears, these bonds. Surely too upon those bonds tears descended;
but the death of the perishing, of those that had bound him in them, suffered
him not to taste the pleasure of the bonds. For in their behalf he grieved, being
a disciple of Him that bewept the priests of the Jews; not because they were
going to crucify Him, but because they were themselves perishing. And He doeth
not this Himself alone, but He thus exhorteth others also, saying, "Daughters of
Jerusalem, weep not for Me." (Luke xxiii. 28.) These eyes saw Paradise, saw
the third heaven: but I count not them so blessed because of this sight, as
because of those tears, through which they saw Christ. Blessed, indeed, was that
sight; for he himself even glories in it, saying, "Have I not seen Jesus Christ
our Lord?" (1 Cor. ix. 1); but more blessed so to weep.
In that sight many have been partakers, and those who have not so been,
Christ the rather calls blessed, saying, "Blessed are they that have not seen,
and yet have believed" (John xx. 29); but unto this not many have attained. For
if to stay here for Christ's sake were more needful than to depart to Him (Phil.
i. 23, 24), for the sake of the salvation of others; surely then to groan for
others' sakes, is more needful even than to see Him. For if for His sake to be
in hell,[1] is rather to be desired, than to be with Him; and to be separated
from Him for His sake more to be desired than to be with Him, (for this is what
he said, "For I could wish that I myself were anathema from Christ" (Rom. ix.
3)), much more is weeping for His sake. "I ceased not," he saith, "to admonish
everyone with tears." (Acts xx. 31.) Wherefore? Not fearing the dangers; no; but
as if one sitting by a sick man's side, and not knowing what would be the end,
should weep for affection, fearing lest he should lose his life; so too did
he; when he saw any one diseased, and could not prevail by rebuke, he
thenceforward wept. So did Christ also, that happily they might reverence His tears: thus,
one sinned, He rebuked him; the rebuked spat upon Him, and sprang aloof; He
wept, that haply He might win him even so.
Remember we these tears: thus let us bring up our daughters, thus our
sons; weeping when we see them in evil. As many women as wish to be loved, let them
remember Paul's tears, and groan: as many of you as are counted blest, as many
as are in bridal chambers, as many as are in pleasure, remember these; as many
as are in mourning, exchange tears for tears. He mourned not for the dead; but
for those that were perishing whilst alive. Shall I tell of other tears?
Timothy also wept; for he was this man's disciple; wherefore also when writing to
him he said, "Remembering thy tears, that I may be filled with joy." (2 Tim. i.
4.) Many weep even from pleasure. So it iS also a matter of pleasure, and that
of the utmost intensity. So the tears are not painful: yea, the tears that flow
from such sorrow are even better far than those due to worldly pleasure. Hear
the Prophet saying, "The Lord hath heard the voice of my weeping, he hath heard
the voice of my supplication." (Ps. vi. 8.) For where is the tear not useful?
in prayers? in exhortations? We get them an ill name, by using them not to what
they are given us for. When we entreat a sinning brother, we ought to weep,
grieving and groaning; when we exhort any one, and he giveth us no heed, but
goeth on perishing, we ought to weep. These are the tears of heavenly wisdom. When
however one is in poverty, or bodily disease, or dead, not so; for these are
not things worthy of tears.
As then we gain an ill name for laughter also, when we use it out of
season; so too do we for tears, by having recourse to them unseasonably. For the
virtue of each thing then discovers itself when it is brought to its own fitting
work, but when to one that is alien, it cloth no longer so. For instance, wine
is given for cheerfulness, not drunkenness, bread for nourishment, sexual
intercourse for the procreation of children. As then these things have gained an ill
name, so also have tears. Be there a law laid down, that they be used in
prayers and exhortations only, and see how desirable a thing they will become.
Nothing doth so wipe out sins, as tears. Tears show even this bodily countenance
beautiful; for they win the spectator to pity, they make it respected in our eyes.
Nothing is sweeter than tearful eyes. For this is the noblest member we have,
and the most beautiful, and the soul's own. And therefore we are so bowed
therewith, as though we saw the soul itself lamenting.
I have not spoken these things without a reason; but in order that ye may
cease your attendance at weddings, at dancings, at Satanical performances. For
see what the devil hath invented. Since nature itself hath withheld women from
the stage, and the disgraceful things enacted there, he hath introduced into
the women's apartment the furniture of the theater, I mean, wanton men and
harlots. This pestilence the custom of marriages hath introduced, or rather, not of
marriages, far be it, but of our own silliness. What is it thou doest, O man?
Dost thou not know what thou art at? Thou marriest a wife for chastity, and
procreation of children; what then mean these harlots? That there may be, one
answereth, greater gladness. And yet is not this rather madness? Thou insultest thy
bride, thou insultest the women that are invited. For if they are delighted with
such proceedings, the thing is an insult. If to see harlots acting
indecorously conferreth any honor, wherefore dost thou not drag thy bride also thither,
that she too may see? It is quite indecent and disgraceful to introduce into
one's house lewd fellows and dancers, and all that Satanic pomp.
"Remember," he saith, "my bonds." Marriage is a bond, a bond ordained of
God, a harlot is a severing and a dissolving. It is permitted you to embellish
marriage with other things, such as full tables, and apparel. I do not cut off
these things, lest I should seem to be clownish to an extreme; and yet Rebecca
was content with her veil[2] only (Gen. xxiv. 65); still I do not cut them off.
It is permitted you to embellish and set off marriage with apparel, with the
presence of reverend men and reverend women. Why introducest thou those
mockeries?[3] why those monsters? Tell us what it is thou hearest from them? What? dost
thou blush to tell? Dost thou blush, and yet force them to do it? If it is
honorable, wherefore dost-thou not do it thyself as well? but if disgraceful,
wherefore dost thou compel another? Everything should be full of chasteness, of
gravity, of orderliness; but I see the reverse, people frisking like camels and
mules. For the virgin, her chamber[1] is the only befitting place. "But," saith
one, "she is poor." Because she is poor, she ought to be modest also; let her
have her character in the place of a fortune. Has she no dowry to give with
herself? Then why dost thou make her otherwise contemptible through her life and
manners? I praise the custom, that virgins attend to do honor to their fellow;
matrons attend to do honor to her who is made one of their order. Rightly hath this
been ordered. For these are two companies, one of virgins, the other of the
married; the one are giving her up, the other receiving her. The bride is between
them, neither virgin, nor wife, for she is coming forth from those, and
entering into the fellowship of these. But those harlots, what mean they? They
ought to hide their faces when marriage is celebrated; they ought to be dug into
the earth, (for harlotry is the corruption of marriage,) but we introduce them at
our marriages. And, when ye are engaged in any work, ye count it ill-omened to
speak even a syllable of what is adverse to it; for instance, when thou
sowest, when thou drawest off the wine from thy vats, thou wouldest not, even if
asked, utter a syllable about vinegar; but here, where the object is chasteness,
introduce ye the vinegar? for such is an harlot. When ye are preparing sweet
ointment, ye suffer nought ill-scented to be near. Marriage is a sweet ointment.
Why then introducest thou the foul stench of the dunghill into the preparation of
thy ointment? What sayest thou? Shall the virgin dance, and yet feel no shame
before her fellow? For she ought to have more gravity than the other; she hath
at least come forth from the [nurse's] arm, and not from the palęstra. For the
virgin ought not to appear publicly at all at a marriage.
Seest thou not how in kings' houses, the honored are within, about the
king, the unhonored without? Do thou too be within about the bride. But remain in
the house in chasteness, expose not thy virginity. Either company is standing
by, the one to show of what sort she is whom they are giving up, the other in
order that they may guard her. Why disgracest thou the virgin estate? For if thou
art such as this, the same will the bridegroom suspect her to be. If thou
wishest to have men in love with thee, this is the part of saleswomen,
green-grocers, and handicrafts-people. Is not this a shame? To act unseemly is a shame even
though it be a king's daughter.[2] For doth her poverty stand in the way? or
her course of life? Even if a virgin be a slave, let her abide in modesty. "For
in Christ Jesus there can be neither bond nor free." (Gal. iii. 28.)
What? is marriage a theater? It is a mystery and a type of a mighty thing;
and even if thou reverence not it, reverence that whose type it is. "This
mystery," saith he, "is great, but I speak in regard of Christ and of the Church."
(Eph. v. 32.) It is a type of the Church, and of Christ, and dost thou
introduce harlots at it? If then, saith one, neither virgins dance, nor the married,
who is to dance? No one, for what need is there of dancing? In the Grecian
mysteries there are dancings, but in ours, silence and decency, modesty, and
bashfulness. A great mystery is being celebrated: forth with the harlots! forth with
the profane! How is it a mystery? They come together, and the two make one.
Wherefore is it that at his entrance indeed, there was no dancing, no cymbals, but
great silence, great stillness; but when they come together, making not a
lifeless image, nor yet the image of anything upon earth, but of God Himself, and
after his likeness, thou introducest so great an uproar, and disturbest those that
are there,[3] and puttest the soul to shame, and confoundest it? They come,
about to be made one body. See again a mystery of love! If the two become not
one, so long as they continue two, they make not many, but when they are come into
oneness, they then make many. What do we learn from this? That great is the
power of union. The wise counsel of God at the beginning divided the one into
two; and being desirous of showing that even after division it remaineth still
one, He suffered not that the one should be of itself enough for procreation. For
he is not one who is not yet [united[4]] but the half of one; and it is evident
from this, that he begetteth no offspring, as was the case also beforetime?
Seest thou the mystery of marriage? He made of one, one[6]; and again, having
made these two, one, He so maketh one, so that now also man is produced of one.
For man and wife are not two men, but one Man. And this may be confirmed from
many sources; for instance, from James,[7] from Mary the Mother of Christ, from
the words, "He made them male and female." (Gen. i. 27.) If he be the head, and
she the body, how are they two? Therefore the one holdeth the rank of a
disciple, the other of a teacher, the one of a ruler, the other of a subject. Moreover,
from the very fashioning of her body, one may see that they are one, for she
was made from his side, and they are, as it were, two halves.
For this cause He also calleth her a help, to show that they are one (Gen.
ii. 18); for this cause He honoreth their cohabitation beyond both father and
mother, to show that they are one. (Gen. ii. 24.) And in like manner a father
rejoiceth both when son and daughter marry, as though the body were hastening to
join a member of its own; and though so great a charge and expenditure of
money is incurred still he cannot bear with indifference to see her(1) unmarried.
For as though her own flesh itself were severed from her, each one separately is
imperfect for the procreation of children, each one is imperfect as regards
the constitution of this present life. Wherefore also the Prophet saith, "the
residue of thy spirit." (Mal. ii. 15, Sept.) And how become they one flesh? As if
thou shouldest take away the purest part of gold, and mingle it with other
gold; so in truth here also the woman as it were receiving the richest part fused
by pleasure, nourisheth it and cherisheth it, and withal contributing her own
share, restoreth it back a Man. And the child is a sort of bridge, so that the
three become one flesh, the child connecting, on either side, each to other. For
like as two cities, which a river divides throughout, become one, if a bridge
connect them on both sides, so is it in this case; and yet more, when the very
bridge in this case is formed of the substance of each. As the body and the head
are one body; for they are divided by the neck; but not divided more than
connected, for it, lying between them brings together each with the other. And it
is the same as if a chorus that had been severed should, by taking one part of
itself from this quarter, and the other again from the right, make one; or as
these when come into close rank, and extending hands, become one; for the hands
extended admit not of their being two. Therefore to wit He said with accuracy of
expression, not "they shall be one flesh" but joined together "into one flesh"
(Gen. ii. 2, Sept.), namely, that of the child. What then? when there is no
child, will they not be two? Nay, for their coming together hath this effect, it
diffuses and commingles the bodies of both. And as one who hath cast ointment
into oil, hath made the whole one; so in truth is it also here. I know that
many are ashamed at what is said, and the cause of this is what I spoke of, your
own lasciviousness, and unchasteness. The fact of marriages being thus
performed, thus depraved, hath gained the thing an ill name: for "marriage is honorable,
and the bed undefiled." (Heb. xiii. 4.) Why art thou ashamed of the honorable,
why blushest thou at the undefiled? This is for heretics,(2) this is for such
as introduce harlots thither. For this cause I am desirous of having it
thoroughly purified, so as to bring it back again to its proper nobleness, so as to
stop the mouths of the heretics. The gift of God is insulted, the root of our
generation; for about that root there is much dung and filth. This then let us
cleanse away by our discourse. Endure then a little while, for he that holdeth
filth must endure the stench. I wish to show you that ye ought not to be ashamed
at these things, but at those which ye do; but thou, passing by all shame at
those, art ashamed at these; surely then thou condemnest God who hath thus decreed.
Shall I tell how marriage is also a mystery of the Church? As Christ came
into the Church, and she was made of him,(3) and he united with her in a
spiritual intercourse, "for," saith one, "I have espoused you to one husband, a pure
virgin." (2 Cor. xi. 2.) And that we are of Him, he saith, of His members, "and
of His flesh." Thinking then on all these things, let us not cast shame upon
so great a mystery. Marriage is a type of the presence of Christ, and art thou
drunken at it? Tell me; if thou sawest an image of the king, wouldest thou
dishonor it? By no means.
Now the practices at marriages seem to be a matter of indifference, but
they are the causes of great mischiefs. All is full of lawlessness. "Filthiness,
and foolish talking, and jesting, let it not proceed," saith he, "out of your
mouth." (Eph. v. 4; iv. 29.) Now all these things are filthiness, foolish
talking, and jesting; and not these simply, but with aggravation, for the thing has
become an art, and there are great praises for those that pursue it. Sins have
become an art! We pursue them not in any chance way, but with earnestness, with
science, and thenceforth the devil takes the command of his own array. For
where drunkenness is, there is unchasteness: where filthy talking, there the devil
is at hand bringing in his own contributions; with such an entertainment, tell
me, dost thou celebrate the mystery of Christ? and invitest thou the devil?
I dare say you consider me offensive. For this too is a property of
extreme pervertedness, that even one that rebuketh you incurs your ridicule as one
that is austere. Hear ye not Paul, saying, "Whatsoever ye do, whether ye eat or
drink or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God"? (1 Cor. x. 31.) But ye
do all to ill report and dishonor. Hear ye not the Prophet, saying, "Serve the
Lord with fear, and rejoice unto Him with trembling?" (Ps. ii. 11.) But ye are
wholly without restraint.(1) Is it not possible both to enjoy pleasure, and to
do so with safety? Art thou desirous of hearing beautiful songs? Best of all
indeed, thou oughtest not; nevertheless, I condescend if thou wilt have it so: do
not hear those Satanic ones, but the spiritual. Art thou desirous of seeing
choirs of dancers? Behold the choir of Angels. And how is it possible, saith one,
to see them? If thou drive away all these things, even Christ will come to such
a marriage, and Christ being present, the choir of Angels is present also. If
thou wilt, He will even now work miracles as He did then; He will make even now
the water, wine (John ii.); and what is much more wonderful, He will convert
this unstable and dissolving pleasure, this cold desire, and change it into the
spiritual. This is to make of water, wine. Where pipers are, by no means there
is Christ; but even if He should have entered, He first casts these forth,(2)
and then He works His wonders. What can be more disagreeable than this Satanic
pomp? where everything is inarticulate, everything without significancy; and if
there be anything articulate, again all is shameful, all is noisome.
Nothing is more pleasurable than virtue, nothing sweeter than orderliness,
nothing more amiable than gravity. Let any celebrate such a marriage as I
speak of; and he shall find the pleasure; but what sort of marriages these are,
take heed. First seek a husband for the virgin, who will be truly a husband, and a
protector; as though thou wert intending to place a head upon a body; as
though about to give not a slave, but a daughter into his hands. Seek not money, nor
splendor of family, nor greatness of country; all these things are
superfluous; but piety of soul, gentleness, the true understanding, the fear of God, if
thou wishest thy darling to live with pleasure. For if thou seek a wealthier
husband, not only wilt thou not benefit her, but thou wilt even harm her, by making
her a slave instead of free. For the pleasure she will reap from her golden
trinkets will not be so great as will be the annoyance that comes of her slavery.
I pray thee, seek not these things, but most of all, one of equal condition;
if however this cannot be, rather one poorer than in better circumstances; if at
least thou be desirous not of selling thy daughter to a master, but of giving
her to a husband. When thou hast thoroughly investigated the virtue of the man,
and art about to give her to him, beseech Christ to be present: for He will
not be ashamed to be so; it is the mystery of His presence. Yea rather beseech
Him even in the first instance, to grant her such a suitor. Be not worse than the
servant of Abraham, who, when sent on a pilgrimage so important, saw whither
he ought to have recourse; wherefore also he obtained everything. When thou art
taking anxious pains, and seeking a husband for her, pray; say unto God,
"whomsoever Thou wilt do Thou provide:" into His hands commit the matter; and He,
honored in this way by thee, will requite thee with honor.
Two things indeed it is necessary to do; to commit the thing into His
hands, and to seek such an orderly person as He Himself approves.
When(3) then thou makest a marriage, go not round from house to house
borrowing mirrors and dresses; for the matter is not one of display, nor dost thou
lead thy daughter to a pageant; but decking out thine house with what is in it,
invite thy neighbors, and friends, and kindred. As many as thou knowest to be
of a good character, those invite, and bid them be content with what there is.
Let no one from the orchestra be present, for such expense is superfluous, and
unbecoming. Before all the rest, invite Christ. Knowest thou whereby thou wilt
invite Him? Whosoever, saith He, "hath done it to one of these least, hath done
it to Me." (Matt. xxv. 40.) And think it not an annoying thing to invite the
poor for Christ's sake; to invite harlots is an annoyance. For to invite the
poor is a means of wealth, the other of ruin. Adorn the bride not with these
ornaments that are made of gold, but with gentleness and modesty, and the customary
robes; in place of all golden ornament and braiding, arraying her in blushes,
and shamefacedness, and the not desiring such things. Let there be no uproar, no
confusion; let the bridegroom be called, let him receive the virgin. The
dinners and suppers, let them not be full of drunkenness, but of abundance and
pleasure. See how many good things will result, whenever we see such marriages as
those; but from the marriages that are now celebrated, (if at least one ought to
call them marriages and not pageants,) how many are the evils! The banquet hall
is no sooner broken up, than straightway comes care and fear, lest aught that
is borrowed should have been lost, and there succeeds to the pleasure
melancholy intolerable. But this distress belongs to the mother-in-law,--nay, rather not
even is the bride herself free; all that follows at least belongs to the bride
herself. For to see all broken up, is a ground for sadness, to see the house
desolate.
There is Christ, here is Satan; there is cheerfulness, here anxious care;
there pleasure, here pain; there expense, here nothing of the kind; there
indecency, here modesty; there envy, here no envy; there drunkenness, here
soberness, here health, here temperance. Bearing in mind all these things, let us stay
the evil at this point, that we may please God, and be counted worthy to obtain
the good things promised to them that love Him, through the grace and love
toward man of our Lord Jesus Christ, with whom, to the Father, together with the
Holy Ghost, be glory, power, honor, now and for ever, and world without end. Amen.