THREE BOOKS OF ST. AMBROSE BISHOP OF MILAN TO MARCELLINA HIS SISTER --
CONCERNING VIRGINS, BOOK I
THREE BOOKS OF ST. AMBROSE, BISHOP OF MILAN,
CONCERNING VIRGINS, TO MARCELLINA, HIS SISTER.
BOOK I.
CHAPTER I.
St. Ambrose, reflecting upon the account he will have to give of his talents,
determines to write, and consoles himself with certain examples of God's mercy.
Then recognizing his own deficiencies desires that he may be dealt with like
the fig-tree in the Gospel, and expresses a hope that words will not fail him in
his endeavour to preach Christ.
1. IF, according to the decree of heavenly truth, we have to give account
of every idle word which we have spoken,(1) and if every servant will incur no
small blame when his lord returns, who, either like a timid money-lender or
covetous owner, has hidden in the earth the talents of spiritual grace which were
entrusted to him in order that they might be multiplied by increasing interest,
I, who, although possessed of but moderate ability, yet have a great necessity
laid on me of making increase of the sayings of God entrusted to me, must
rightly fear lest an account of the profit of my words be demanded of me,
especially seeing that the Lord exacts of us effort, not profit. Wherefore I determined
to write something, since, too, my words are listened to with greater risk to
modesty than when they are written, for a book has no feeling of modesty.
2. And so distrusting indeed my own ability, but encouraged by the
instances of divine mercy, I venture to compose an address, for when God willed even
the ass spoke.(2) And I will open my mouth long dumb. that the angel may assist
me also, engaged in the burdens of this world, for He can do away with the
hindrances of unskilfulness. Who in the ass did away those of nature. In the ark of
the Old Testament the priest's rod budded;(1) with God it is easy that in Holy
Church a flower should spring from our knots also. And why should we despair
that God should speak in men, Who spoke in the thorn bush?(2) God did not
despise the bush, and would He might give light also to my thorns. Perhaps some may
wonder that there is some light even in our thorns; some our thorns will not
burn; there will be some whose shoes shall be put off their feet at the sound of
my voice, that the steps of the mind may be freed from bodily hindrances.
3. But these things are gained by holy men. Would that Jesus would cast a
glance upon me still lying under that barren fig-tree,(3) and that my fig-tree
might also after three years bear fruit.(4) But whence should sinners have so
great hope? Would that at least that Gospel dresser of the vineyard, perhaps
already bidden to cut down my fig-tree, would let it alone this year also, until
he dig about it and dung it, that he may perchance lift the helpless out of the
dust, and lift the poor out of the mire.(5) Blessed are they who bind their
horses under the vine and olive,(6) consecrating the course of their labours to
light and joy: the fig-tree, that is, the tempting attraction of the pleasures of
the world, still overshadows me, low in height, brittle for working, soft for
use, and barren of fruit.
4. And perhaps some one may wonder why I, who cannot speak, venture to
write. And yet if we consider what we read in the writings of the Gospel, and the
deeds of the priests, and the holy prophet Zacharias is taken as an instance,
he will find that there is something which the voice cannot explain, but the pen
can write. And if the name John restored speech to his father,(1) I, too,
ought not to despair that although dumb I may yet receive speech, if I speak of
Christ, of Whom, according to the prophet's word: "Who shall declare the
generation?"(2) And so as a servant I will announce the family of the Lord, for the Lord
has consecrated to Himself a family even in this body of humanity replete with
frailty.
CHAPTER II.
This treatise has a favourable beginning, since it is the birthday of the holy
Virgin Agnes, of whose name, modesty, and martyrdom St. Ambrose speaks in
commendation, but more especially of her age, seeing that she, being but twelve
years old, was superior to terrors, promises, tortures, and death itself, with a
courage wholly worthy of a man.
5. AND my task begins favourably, that since to-day is the birthday of a
virgin, I have to speak of virgins, and the treatise has its beginning from this
discourse. It is the birthday of a martyr, let us offer the victim. It is the
birthday of St. Agnes, let men admire, let children take courage, let the
married be astounded, let the unmarried take an example. But what can I say worthy
of her whose very name was not devoid of bright praise? In devotion beyond her
age, in virtue above nature, she seems to me to have borne not so much a human
name, as a token of martyrdom, whereby she showed what she was to be.
6. But I have that which may assist me. The name of virgin is a title of
modesty. I will call upon the martyr, I will proclaim the virgin. That panegyric
is long enough which needs no elaboration, but is within our grasp. Let then
labour cease, eloquence be silent. One word is praise enough. This word old men
and young and boys chant. No one is more praiseworthy than he who can be
praised by all There are as many heralds as there are men, who when they speak
proclaim the martyr.
7. She is said to have suffered martyrdom when twelve years old. The more
hateful was the cruelty, which spared not so tender an age, the greater in
truth was the power of faith which found evidence even in that age. Was there room
for a wound in that small body? And she who had no room for the blow of the
steel had that wherewith to conquer the steel. But maidens of that age are unable
to bear even the angry looks of parents, and are wont to cry at the pricks of a
needle as though they were wounds. She was fearless under the cruel hands of
the executioners, she was unmoved by the heavy weight of the creaking chains,
offering her whole body to the sword of the raging soldier, as yet ignorant of
death, but ready for it. Or if she were unwillingly hurried to the altars, she
was ready to stretch forth her hands to Christ at the sacrificial fires, and at
the sacrilegious altars themselves, to make the sign of the Lord the
Conqueror,(1) or again to place her neck and both her hands in the iron bands, but no band
could enclose such slender limbs.
8. A new kind of martyrdom! Not yet of fit age for punishment but already
ripe for victory, difficult to contend with but easy to be crowned, she filled
the office of teaching valour while having the disadvantage of youth. She would
not as a bride so hasten to the couch, as being a virgin she joyfully went to
the place of punishment with hurrying step, her head not adorned with plaited
hair, but with Christ. All wept, she alone was without a tear. All wondered that
she was so readily prodigal of her life, which she had not yet enjoyed, and
now gave up as though she had gone through it. Every one was astounded that there
was now one to bear witness to the Godhead, who as yet could not, because of
her age, dispose of herself. And she brought it to pass that she should be
believed concerning God, whose evidence concerning man would not be accepted. For
that which is beyond nature is from the Author of nature.
9. What threats the executioner used to make her fear him, what
allurements to persuade her, how many desired that she would come to them in marriage!
But she answered: "It would be an injury to my spouse to look on any one. as
likely to please me. He who chose me first for Himself shall receive me. Why are
you delaying, executioner? Let this body perish which can be loved by eyes which
I would not." She stood, she prayed, she bent down her neck. You could see the
executioner tremble, as though he himself. had been condemned, and his right
hand shake, his face grow pale, as he feared the peril of another, while the
maiden feared not for her own. You have then in one victim a twofold martyrdom, of
modesty and of religion. She both remained a virgin and she obtained martyrdom.
CHAPTER III.
Virginity is praised on many grounds, but chiefly because it brought down the
Word from heaven, and hence its pursuit, which existed in but few under the old
covenant, has spread to countless numbers.
10. AND now the love of purity draws me on, and you, my holy sister, even
though not speaking in your silent habit, to say something about virginity,
test that which is a principal virtue should seem to be passed by with only a
slight reference. For virginity is not praiseworthy because it is found in martyrs,
but because itself makes martyrs.
11. But who can comprehend that by human understanding which not even
nature has included in her laws? Or who can explain in ordinary language that which
is above the course of nature? Virginity has brought from heaven that which it
may imitate on earth. And not unfittingly has she sought her manner of life
from heaven, who has found for herself a Spouse in heaven. She, passing beyond
the clouds, air, angels, and stars, has found the Word of God in the very bosom
of the Father, and has drawn Him into herself with her whole heart. For who
having found so great a Good would forsake it? For "Thy Name is as ointment poured
out, therefore have the maidens loved Thee, and drawn Thee."(1) And indeed what
I have said is not my own, since they who marry not nor are given in marriage
are as the angels in heaven. Let us not, then, be surprised if they are
compared to the angels who are joined to the Lord of angels. Who, then, can deny that
this mode of life has its source m heaven, which we don't easily find on earth,
except since God came down into the members of an earthly body? Then a Virgin
conceived, and the Word became flesh that flesh might become God.
12. But some one will say: "But Elijah is seen to have had nothing to do
with the embraces of bodily love." And therefore was he carried by a chariot
into heaven,(2) therefore he appeared glorified with the Lord,(3) and therefore he
is to come as the forerunner of the Lord's advent.(4) And Miriam taking the
timbrel led the dances with maidenly modesty.(1) But consider whom she was then
representing. Was she not a type of the Church, who as a virgin with unstained
spirit joins together the religious gatherings of the people to sing divine
songs? For we read that there were virgins appointed also in the temple at
Jerusalem. But what says the Apostle? "These things happened to them in a figure, that
they might be signs of what was to come."(2) For the figure is shown in few,
the life exists in many.
13. But in truth after that the Lord, coming in our flesh, joined together
the Godhead and flesh without any confusion or mixture, then the practice of
the life of heaven spreading throughout the whole world was implanted in human
bodies. This is that which angels ministering on earth signified should come to
pass,(3) which ministry should be offered to the Lord with the service of an
unstained body. This is that heavenly service which the host of rejoicing angels
spoke of for the earth,(4) We have, then, the authority of antiquity from of
old, the fulness of the setting forth from Christ Himself.
CHAPTER IV.
The comeliness of virginity never existed amongst the heathen, neither with
the vestal virgins, nor amongst philosophers, such as Pythagoras.
14. I CERTAINLY have not this in common with the heathen, nor in regard to
it am I associated with barbarians, nor practise it with other animals, with
whom, although we breathe one and the same vital air, and have a common
condition of an earthly body, and from whom we differ not in the mode of generation, in
this point alone we nevertheless avoid the reproach of likeness, that
virginity is aimed at by the heathen, but when consecrated it is violated, it is
attacked by barbarians, and is unknown to others.
15. Who will allege to me the virgins of Vesta. and the priests of Pallas?
What sort of chastity is that which is not of morals, but of years, which is
appointed not for ever, but for a term! Such purity is all the more wanton of
which the corruption is put off for a later age. They teach their virgins ought
not to persevere, and are unable to do so, who have set a term to virginity.
What sort of a religion is that in which modest maidens are bidden to be immodest
old women? Nor is she modest who is bound by law, and she immodest who is set
free by law. O the mystery! O the morals! where chastity is enforced by law and
authority given for lust! And so she is not chaste, who is constrained by fear;
nor honourable, who is hired for a price; nor is that modesty which, exposed
to the daily importunity of lascivious eyes, is attacked by disgraceful looks.
Exemptions are bestowed upon them, prices are offered them, as though to sell
one's chastity were not the greatest sign of wantonness. That which is promised
for a price is given up for a price; is made over for a price; is considered to
have its price. She who is wont to sell her chastity knows not how to redeem it.
16. What shall I say of the Phrygian rites, in which immodesty is the
rule, and that too of the weaker sex? What of the orgies of Bacchus, where the
mystery of the rites is an incentive to lust? Of what sort can the lives of priests
be, then, where the adulteries of the gods are matters of religion. So then
they have no sacred virgins.
17. Let us see whether perchance the precepts of philosophers have formed
any, for they are wont to claim the teaching of all virtues. A certain
Pythagorean virgin is spoken of in story, whom a tyrant was endeavouring to compel to
reveal the secret, and lest it should be possible even in her torments for
revelation to be extorted from her, she bit off her tongue and spat it in the
tyrant's face, that he who would not make an end of questioning might not have aught
to question.
18. But that same virgin, so constant in mind, was overcome by lust,
though she could not be overcome by torments. And so she who could keep the secret
of her mind could not conceal the shame of her body. She overcame nature, but
observed not discipline. How she would desire that her speech had existed as a
defence of her chastity! So she was not unconquered on every side, for although
the tyrant could not find out that which he sought, yet he did find what he
sought not.
19. How much stronger are our virgins, who overcome even those powers
which they do not see; whose victory is not only over flesh and blood, but also
over the prince of this world, and ruler of this age! In age, Agnes indeed was
less, but in virtue greater, triumphing over more, more constant in her
confidence; she did not destroy her tongue through fear, but kept it for a trophy. For
there was nothing in her which she feared to betray, since that which she
acknowledged was holy, not sinful. And so the former merely concealed her secret, the
latter bore witness to the Lord, and confessed Him in her body, Whom her age
did not yet suffer to confess.
CHAPTER V.
Heaven is the home of virginity, and the Son of God its Author, Who though He
was a Virgin before the Virgin, yet being of the Virgin took the Virgin Church
as His bride. Of her we have all been born. Some of her gifts are enumerated.
Her daughters have a special excellence in that virginity is not a matter of
precept, and that it is a most powerful help in the pursuit of piety.
20. IT is the custom in encomiums to speak of country and parentage of the
subject, that the greatness of the offspring may be enhanced by mention of the
father. Now I, who have not undertaken to praise but to set forth virginity,
yet think it to the purpose to make known its country and its parent. First, let
us settle where is its country. Now, if one's country be there where is the
home of one's birth, without doubt heaven is the native country of chastity. And
so she is a stranger here, but a denizen there.
21. And what is virginal chastity but purity free from stain? And whom can
we judge to be its author but the immaculate Son of God, Whose flesh saw no
corruption, Whose Godhead experienced no infection?. Consider, then, how great
are the merits of virginity. Christ was before the Virgin, Christ was of the
Virgin. Begotten indeed of the Father before the ages, but born of the Virgin for
the ages. The former was of His own nature, the latter is for our benefit. The
former always was, the latter He willed.
22. Consider, too, another merit of virginity. Christ is the spouse of the
Virgin, and if one may so say of virginal chastity, for virginity is of
Christ, not Christ of virginity. He is, then, the Virgin Who was espoused, the Virgin
Who bare us, Who fed us with her own milk, of whom we read: "How great things
hath the virgin of Jerusalem done! The teats shall not fail from the rock, nor
snow from Lebanon, nor the water which is borne by the strong wind."(1) Who is
this virgin that is watered with the streams of the Trinity, from whose rock
waters flow, whose teats fail not, and whose honey is poured forth? Now,
according to the Apostle, the rock is Christ.(2) Therefore, from Christ the teats fail
not, nor brightness from God, nor the river from the Spirit. This is the
Trinity which waters their Church, the Father, Christ, and the Spirit.
23. But let us now come down from the mother to the daughters.
"Concerning virgins," says the Apostle, "I have no commandment of the Lord."(1) If the
teacher of the Gentiles had none, who could have one? And in truth he had no
commandment, but he had an example. For virginity cannot be commanded, but must be
wished for, for things which are above us are matters for prayer rather than
under mastery. "But I would have you," he says, "be without carefulness. For he
who is without a wife is careful for the things which are the Lord's, how he may
please God.And the virgin taketh thought for the things of the Lord, that she
may be holy in body and in spirit. For she that is married taketh thought for
the things of the world, how she may please her husband."(2)
CHAPTER VI.
St. Ambrose explains that he is not speaking against marriage, and proceeds to
compare the advantages and disadvantages of the single and married state.
24. I AM not indeed discouraging marriage, but am enlarging upon the
benefits of virginity. "He who is weak," says the Apostle, "eateth herbs."(3) I
consider one thing necessary, I admire another. "Art thou bound to a wife? Seek not
to be loosed. Art thou free from a wife? Seek not a wife."(4) This is the
command to those who are. But what does he say concerning virgins? "He who giveth
his virgin in marriage doeth well, and he who giveth her not doeth better."(5)
The one sins not if she marries, the other, if she marries not, it is for
eternity. In the former is the remedy for weakness, in the latter the glory of
chastity. The former is not reproved, the latter is praised.
25. Let us compare, if it pleases you, the advantages of married women
with that which awaits virgins. Though the noble woman boasts of her abundant
offspring, yet the more she bears the more she endures. Let her count up the
comforts of her children, but let her likewise count up the troubles. She marries and
weeps. How many vows does she make with tears. She conceives, and her
fruitfulness brings her trouble before offspring. She brings forth and is ill. How
sweet a pledge which begins with danger and ends in danger. which will cause pain
before pleasure! It is purchased by perils, and is not possessed at her own will.
26. Why speak of the troubles of nursing, training, and marrying? These
are the miseries of those who are fortunate. A mother has heirs, but it increases
her sorrows. For we must not speak of adversity, lest the minds of the holiest
parents tremble. Consider, my sister, how hard it must be to bear what one
must not speak of. And this is in this present age. But the days shall come when
they shall say: "Blessed are the barren, and the wombs that never bare."(1) For
the daughters of this age are conceived, and conceive; but the daughter of the
kingdom refrains from wedded pleasure, and the pleasure of the flesh, that she
may be holy in body and in spirit.
27. Why should I further speak of the painful ministrations and services
due to their husbands from wives, to whom before slaves God gave the command to
serve?(2) And I mention these things that they may comply more willingly, whose
reward, if approved, is love; if not approved, punishment for the fault.
28. And in this position spring up those incentives to vice, in that they
paint their faces with various colours, fearing not to please their husbands;
and from staining their faces, come to think of staining their chastity. What
madness is here, to change the fashion of nature and seek a painting, and while
fearing a husband's judgment to give up their own. For she is the first to speak
against herself who wishes to change that which is natural to her. So, while
studying to please others, she displeases herself. What truer witness to thy
unsightliness do we require, O woman, than thyself who art afraid to be seen? If
thou art beautiful, why hidest thou thyself? If unsightly, why dost thou falsely
pretend to beauty, so as to have neither the satisfaction of thy own
conscience, nor of the error of another? For he loves another, thou desirest to please
another. And art thou angry if he love another, who is taught to do so in thy
own person? Thou art an evil teacher of thy own injury.
29. And next, what expense is necessary that even a beautiful wife may not
fail to please? Costly necklaces on the one hand hang on her neck, on the
other a robe woven with gold is dragged along the ground. Is this display
purchased, or is it a real possession? And what varied enticements of perfumes are made
use of! The ears are weighed down with gems, a different colour from nature is
dropped into the eyes. What is there left which is her own, when so much is
changed? The married woman loves her own perceptions, and does she think that this
is to live?
30. But you, O happy virgins, who know not such torments, rather than
ornaments, whose holy modesty, beaming in your bashful cheeks, and sweet chastity
are a beauty, ye do not, intent upon the eyes of men, consider as merits what is
gained by the errors of others. You, too, have indeed your own beauty,
furnished by the comeliness of virtue, not of the body, to which age puts not an end,
which death cannot take away, nor any sickness injure. Let God alone be sought
as the judge of loveliness, Who loves even in less beautiful bodies the more
beautiful souls. You know nothing of the burden and pain of childbearing, but
more are the offspring of a pious soul, which esteems all as its children, which
is rich in successors, barren of all bereavements, which knows no deaths, but
has many heirs.
31. So the holy Church, ignorant of wedlock, but fertile in bearing, is in
chastity a virgin, yet a mother in offspring. She, a virgin, bears us her
children, not by a human father, but by the Spirit. She bears us not with pain, but
with the rejoicings of the angels. She, a virgin, feeds us, not with the milk
of the body, but with that of the Apostle, wherewith he fed the tender age of
the people who were still children.(1) For what bride has more children than
holy Church, who is a virgin in her sacraments and a mother to her people, whose
fertility even holy Scripture attests, saying, "For many more are the children
of the desolate than of her that hath an husband"?(2) She has not an husband,
but she has a Bridegroom, inasmuch as she, whether as the Church amongst nations,
or as the soul in individuals, without any loss of modesty, she weds the Word
of God as her eternal Spouse, free from all injury, full of reason.
CHAPTER VII.
St. Ambrose exhorts parents to train their children to virginity, and sets
before them the troubles arising from their desire to have grandchildren. He says
however that he does not forbid marriage, but rather defends it against
heretics who oppose it. Still setting virginity before marriage, he speaks of the
beauty of their spouse, and of the gifts wherewith He adorns them, and applies to
these points certain vetoes of the Song of Songs.
32. You have heard, O parents, in what virtues and pursuits you ought to
train your daughters, that you may possess those by whose merits your faults may
be redeemed. The virgin is an offering for her mother, by whose daily
sacrifice the divine power is appeased. A virgin is the inseparable pledge of her
parents, who neither troubles them for a dowry, nor forsakes them, nor injures them
in word or deed.(1)
33. But some one perhaps wishes to have grandchildren, and to be called
grandfather. In the first place, such a one gives up what is his own, while
seeking what is another's, and is already losing what is certain, while hoping to
gain what is uncertain; he gives away his own riches, and still more is asked
for; if he does not pay the dowry, it is exacted; if he lives long, he becomes a
burden. This is to buy a son-in-law, not to gain one who would sell a sight of
their daughter to her parents. Was she borne so long in her mother's womb in
order that she might pass under the power of another? And so the parents take the
charge of setting off their virgin that she may so be the sooner removed from
them.
34. Some one may say, Do you, then, discourage marriage? Nay, I encourage
it, and condemn those who are wont to discourage it, so much so, that indeed I
am wont to speak of the marriages of Sarah, Rebecca, and Rachel, and other
women of old time, as instances of singular virtues. For he who condemns marriage,
condemns the birth of children, and condemns the fellowship of the human race,
continued by a series of successive generations. For how could generation
succeed generation in a continual order, unless the gift of marriage stirred up the
desire of offspring? Or how could one set forth that Isaac went to the altar of
God as a victim of his father's piety, or that Israel, when yet in the body,
saw God,(2) and gave a holy name to the people while speaking against that
whereby they came into being? Those men, though wicked, have one point at any rate,
wherein they are up-proved even by the wise persons, that in speaking against
marriage they declare that they ought not to have been born.
35. I do not then discourage marriage, but recapitulate the advantages of
holy virginity. This is the gift of few only, that is of all. And virginity
itself cannot exist, unless it have some mode of coming into existence. I am
comparing good things with good things, that it may be clear which is the more
excellent. Nor do I allege any opinion of my own, but I repeat that which the Holy
Spirit spake by the prophet: "Blessed is the barren that is undefiled."(1)
36. First of all, in that which those who purpose to marry desire above
all things, that they may boast of the beauty of their husband, they must of
necessity confess that they are inferior to virgins, to Whom alone it is suitable
to say: "Thou art fairer than the children of men, grace is poured on Thy
lips."(2) Who is that Spouse? One not given to common indulgences, not proud of
possessing riches, but He Whose throne is for ever and ever. The king's daughters
share in His honour: "At Thy right hand stood the queen in a vesture of gold,
clothed with variety of virtues. Hearken, then, O daughter, and consider, and
incline thine ear, and forget thine own people and thy father's house; for the king
hath desired thy beauty, for He is thy God."(3)
37. And observe what a kingdom the Holy Spirit by the witness of the
divine Scriptures has assigned to thee--gold, and beauty; gold, either because thou
art the bride of the Eternal King, or because having an unconquered mind, thou
art not taken captive by the allurements of pleasures, but rulest over them
like a queen. Gold again, because as that metal is more precious when tried by
fire, so the appearance of the virginal body, consecrated to the Divine Spirit,
gains an increase of its own comeliness, for who can imagine a loveliness greater
than the beauty of her who is loved by the King, approved by the judge,
dedicated to the Lord, consecrated to God; ever a bride, ever unmarried, so that
neither does love suffer an ending, nor modesty loss.
38. This is indeed true beauty, to which nothing is wanting, which alone
is worthy to hear the Lord saying: "Thou art all fair, My love, and no blemish
is in thee. Come hither from Lebanon, My spouse, come hither from Lebanon. Thou
shalt pass and pass through from the beginning of faith, from the top of Sanir
and Hermon, from the dens of the lions, from the mountains of the leopards."(1)
By which references is set forth the perfect and irreproachable beauty of a
virgin soul, consecrated to the altars of God, not moved by perishable things
amidst the haunts and dens of spiritual wild beasts, but intent, by the mysteries
of God, on being found worthy of the Beloved, Whose breasts are full of joy.
For "wine maketh glad the heart of man."(2)
39. "The smell of thy garments," says He, "is above all spices."(3) And
again: "And the smell of thy garments is like the smell of Lebanon."(4) See what
progress thou settest forth, O Virgin. Thy first odour is above all spices,
which were used upon the burying of the Saviour,(5) and the fragrance arises from
the mortified motions of the body, and the perishing of the delights of the
members. Thy second odour, like the odour of Lebanon, exhales the incorruption of
the Lord's body, the flower of virginal chastity.
CHAPTER VIII.
Taking the passage concerning the honeycomb in the Song of Songs, he expounds
it, comparing the sacred virgins to bees.
40. LET, then, your work be as it were a honeycomb, for virginity is fit
to be compared to bees, so laborious is it, so modest, so continent. The bee
feeds on dew, it knows no marriage couch, it makes honey. The virgin's dew is the
divine word, for the words of God descend like the dew. The virgin's modesty is
unstained nature. The virgin's produce is the fruit of the lips, without
bitterness, abounding in sweetness. They work in common, and their fruit is in
common.
41. How I wish you, my daughter, to be an imitator of these bees, whose
food is flowers, whose offspring is collected and brought together by the mouth.
Do imitate her, my daughter. Let no veil of deceit be spread over your words;
let them have no covering of guile, that they may be pure, and full of gravity.
42. And let an eternal succession of merits be brought forth by your
mouth. Gather not for yourself alone (for how do you know when your soul shall be
required of you?), lest leaving your granaries heaped full with corn, which will
be a help neither to your life nor to your merits, you be hurried thither where
you cannot take your treasure with you. Be rich then, but towards the poor,
that as they share in your nature they may also share your goods.
43. And I also point out to you what flower is to be culled, that one it
is Who said: "I am the Flower of the field, and the Lily of the valleys, as a
lily among thorns,"(1) which is a plain declaration that virtues are surrounded
by the thorns of spiritual wickedness, so that no one can gather the fruit who
does not approach with caution.
CHAPTER IX.
Other passages from the Song of Songs are considered with relation to the
present subject, and St. Ambrose exhorting the virgin to seek for Christ, points
out where He may be found. A description of His perfections follows, and a
comparison is made between virgins and the angels.
44. TAKE, then, O Virgin, the wings of the Spirit, that you may fly far
above all vices, if you wish to attain to Christ: "He dwelleth on high, but
beholdeth lowly things;"(2) and His appearance is as that of a cedar of Lebanon,
which has its foliage in the clouds, its roots in the earth. For its beginning is
from heaven, its ending on earth, and it produces fruit very close to heaven.
Search diligently for so precious a flower, if perchance you may find it in the
recesses of your breast, for it is most often to be enjoyed in lowly places.
45. It loves to grow in gardens, in which Susanna, while walking, found
it, and was ready to die rather than it should be violated. But what is meant by
the gardens He Himself points out, saying: "A garden enclosed is My sister, My
spouse, a garden enclosed, a fountain sealed;"(3) because in gardens of this
kind the water of the pure fountain shines, reflecting the features of the image
of God, test its streams mingled with mud from the wallowing places of
spiritual wild beasts should be polluted. For this reason, too, that modesty of virgins
fenced in by the wall of the Spirit is enclosed lest it should lie open to be
plundered. And so as a garden inaccessible from without smells of the violet is
scented with the olive, and is resplendent with the rose, that religion may
increase in the vine, peace in the olive, and the modesty of consecrated
virginity in the rose. This is the odour of which the patriarch Jacob smelt when he
heard his father say: "See the smell of my son is as the smell of a field which is
full."(4) For although the field of the holy patriarch was full of almost all
fruits, the other brought forth its crops with greater labour, the latter
flowers.
46. To work, then, O Virgin, and if you wish your garden to be sweet after
this sort, enclose it with the precepts of the prophets: "Set a watch before
thy mouth, and a door to thy lips,"(1) that you, too, may be able to say: "As
the apple-tree among the trees of the wood, so is my Beloved among the sons. In
His shadow I delighted and sat down, and His fruit was sweet to my palate.(2) I
found Him Whom my soul loved, I held Him and would not let him go. My beloved
came down into His garden to eat the fruit of His trees.(3) Come, my Beloved,
let us go forth into the field.(4) Set me as a signet upon Thine heart, and as a
seal upon Thine arm.(5) My Beloved is white and ruddy."(6) For it is fitting, O
Virgin, that you should fully know Him Whom you love, and should recognize in
Him all the mystery of His Divine Nature and the Body which He has assumed. He
is white fittingly, for He is the brightness of the Father; and ruddy, for He
was born of a Virgin. The colour of each nature shines and glows in Him. But
remember that the marks of His Godhead are more ancient in Him than the mysteries
of His body, for He did not take His origin from the Virgin, but, He Who
already existed came into the Virgin.
47. He Who was spoiled by the soldiers, Who was wounded by the spear, that
He might heal us by the blood of His sacred wounds, will assuredly answer you
(for He is meek and lowly of heart, and gentle in aspect): "Arise, O north
wind, and come, O south, and blow upon My garden, that My spices may flow out."(7)
For from all parts of the world has the perfume of holy religion increased, and
the limbs of the consecrated Virgin have glowed. "Thou art beautiful, O my
love, as Tirzah, comely as Jerusalem."(8) So it is not the beauty of the
perishable body, which will come to an end with sickness or old age, but the reputation
for good deserts, subject to no accidents and never to perish, which is the
beauty of virgins.
48. And since you are worthy to be compared not now with men but with
heavenly beings, whose life you are living on earth, receive from the Lord the
precepts you are to observe: "Set Me as a signet upon thine heart, and as a seal
upon thine arm;"(9) that clearer proofs of your prudence and actions may be set
forth, in which Christ the Figure of God may shine, Who, equalling fully the
nature of the Father, has expressed the whole which He took of the Father's
Godhead. Whence also the Apostle Paul says that we are sealed in the Spirit;(1) since
we have in the Son the image of the Father, and in the Spirit the seal of the
Son. Let us, then, sealed by this Trinity, take more diligent heed, lest either
levity of character or the deceit of any unfaithfulness unseal the pledge
which we have received in our hearts.
49. But let fear secure this for the holy virgins, for whom the Church
first provided such protection, who, anxious for the prosperity of her tender
offspring, herself as a wall with breasts as many towers,(2) increases her care for
them, until, the fear of hostile attack being at an end, she obtains by the
care of a mother's love peace for her vigorous children. Wherefore the prophet
says: "Peace be on thy virtue, and abundance in thy towers."(3)
50. Then the Lord of peace Himself, after having embraced in His strong
arms the vineyards committed to Him, and beholding their shoots putting forth
buds, with glad looks, tempers the breezes to the young fruits, as Himself
testifies, saying: "My vineyard is in My sight, a thousand for Solomon, and two
hundred who keep the fruit thereof."(4)
51. Above it is said: "Sixty strong men round about its offspring, armed
with drawn swords, and expert in warlike discipline,"(5) here there are a
thousand and two hundred. The number has increased, where the fruit has increased,
for the more holy each is, the more is he guarded. So Elisha the prophet showed
the hosts of angels who were present to guard him; so Joshua the son of Nun
recognized the Captain of the heavenly host. They, then, who are able also to fight
for us are able to guard the fruit that is in us. And for you, holy virgins,
there is a special guardianship, for you who with unspotted chastity keep the
couch of the Lord holy. And no wonder if the angels fight for you who war with
the mode of life of angels. Virginal chastity merits their guardianship whose
life it attains to.
52. Why should I continue the praise of chastity in more words? For
chastity has made even angels. He who has preserved it is an angel; he who has lost
it a devil. And hence has religion also gained its name. She is a virgin who is
the bride of God, a harlot who makes gods for herself. What shall I say of the
resurrection of which you already hold the rewards: "For in the resurrection
they will neither be given in marriage, nor marry, but shall be," He says, "as
the angels in heaven."(1) That which is promised to us is already present with
you, and the object of your prayers is with you; ye are of this world, and yet
not in this world. This age has held you, but has not been able to retain you.
53. But what a great thing it is that angels because of incontinence fell
from heaven into this world, that virgins because of chastity passed from the
world into heaven. Blessed virgins, whom the delights of the flesh do not
allure, nor the defilement of pleasures cast down. Sparing food and abstinence in
drink train them in ignorance of vices, seeing they keep them from knowing the
causes of vices. That which causes sin has often deceived even the just. In this
way the people of God after they sat down to eat and drink denied God.(2) In
this way, too, Lot knew not, and so endured his daughters' wickedness.(3) So, too,
the sons of Noah going backward covered their father's nakedness, which he who
was wanton saw, he who was modest blushed at and dutifully hid, fearful of
offending if he too saw it.(4) How great is the power of wine, so that wine made
him naked which the waters of the deluge could not.
CHAPTER IX.
Finally, another glory of virginity is mentioned, that it is free from
avarice. St. Ambrose, addressing his sister, reminds her of the great happiness of
those who are free from those troubles as to luxury and vanity which come upon
those who are about to marry.
WHAT then? What happiness it is that no desire of possessions inflames
you! The poor man demands what you have, he does not ask for what you have not.
The fruit of your labour is a treasure for the needy, and two mites, if they be
all one has, are wealth on the part of the giver.
54. Listen, then, my sister, from what you escape. For it is not for me to
teach nor for you to learn what you ought to guard against, for the practice
of perfect virtue does not require teaching, but instructs others. You see how
like she is to the litters at processions, who lays herself out to please,
attracting to herself the look and gaze of all; less beautiful is she because she
strives to please, for she displeases the people before she pleases her husband.
But in you the rejection of all care for spendour is far more becoming, and the
very fact that you do not adorn yourselves is an ornament.
55. Look at the ears pierced with wounds, and pity the neck weighed down
with burdens. That the metals are different does not lighten the suffering. In
one case a chain binds the neck, in another a fetter encloses the foot. It makes
no difference whether the body be loaded with gold or with iron. Thus the neck
is weighed down and the steps are hindered. The price makes it no better,
except that you women are afraid lest that which causes you suffering be lost. What
is the difference whether the sentence of another or your own condemn you?
Nay, you, even more wretched than those, are condemned by public justice, since
they desire to be set free, you to be bound.
56. But how wretched a position, that she who is marriageable is in a
species of sale put up as it were to auction to be bid for, so that he who offers
the highest price purchases her. Slaves are sold on more tolerable conditions,
for they often choose their masters; if a maiden chooses it is an offence, if
not it is an insult. And she, though she be beautiful and comely, both fears and
wishes to be seen; she wishes it that she may sell herself for a better price;
she fears lest the fact of her being seen should itself be unbecoming. But what
absurdities of wishes and fears and suspicions are there as to how the suitors
will turn out, lest a poor man may beguile her, or a rich one contemn her,
lest a handsome suitor mock her, lest a noble one despise her.
CHAPTER XI.
St. Ambrose answers objections made to the uselessness of his exhortations in
favour of virginity, and brings forward instances of virgins especially in
various places he mentions, and speaks of their zeal in the cause.
57. SOME one may say, you are always singing the praises of virgins. What
shall I do who am always singing them and have no success? But this is not my
fault. Then, too, virgins come from Placentia to be consecrated, or from
Bononia, and Mauritania, in order to receive the veil here. You see a striking thing
here. I treat the matter here, and persuade those who are elsewhere. If this be
so, let me treat the subject elsewhere, that I may persuade you.
58. What is it, then, that even they who hear me not follow my teaching,
and those who hear me follow me not? For I have known many virgins who had the
desire, but were prevented from going forward by their mothers, and, which is
more serious, mothers who were widows, to whom I will now address myself. For if
your daughters desired to love a man, they could, by law, choose whom they
would. Are they, then, who are allowed to choose a man not allowed to choose God?
59. Behold how sweet is the fruit of modesty, which has sprung up even in
the affections of barbarians. Virgins coming from the most distant on this and
that side of Mauritania desire to be consecrated here; and though all the
families be in bonds, yet modesty cannot be bound. She who mourns over the hardship
of slavery avows an eternal kingdom.
60. And what shall I say of the virgins of Bononia, a fertile band of
chastity, who, forsaking worldly delights, inhabit the sanctuary of virginity?(1)
Not being of the sex which lives in common, attaining m their common chastity to
the number of twenty, and fruit to an hundredfold, leaving their parents'
dwelling they press into the houses of Christ, as soldiers of unwearied chastity;
at one time singing spiritual songs, they provide their sustenance by labour,
and seek with their hands supplies for their liberality.
61. But if the attraction of searching for virgins has grown strong (for
they beyond others follow up the search and watch for purity), they follow up
their hidden prey with the greatest perseverance to its very chambers; or, if the
flight of any one shall have seemed more free, one may see them rise on the
wing, hear the rustling of their feathers, and the bursting of applause; so as to
surround the one on wing with a chaste band of modesty, until rejoicing in
that fair companionship, forgetful of her father's house, she enters the regions
of modesty and the fenced-in home of chastity.
CHAPTER XII.
It is very desirable that parents should encourage the desire for the virgin
life, but more praiseworthy when the love of God draws a maiden even against
their will. The violence of parents and the loss of property are not to be feared,
and an instance of this is related by St. Ambrose.
62. IT is a good thing, then, that the zeal of parents, like favouring
gales, should aid a virgin; but it is more glorious if the fire of tender age even
without the incitement of those older of its own self burst forth into the
flame of chastity. Parents will refuse a dowry, but you have a wealthy Spouse,
satisfied with Whose treasures you will not miss the revenues of a father's
inheritance. How much is poverty to chastity superior to bridal gifts!
63. And yet of whom have you heard as ever, because of her desire for
chastity, having been deprived of her lawful inheritance? Parents speak against
her, but are willing to be overcome. They resist at first because they are afraid
to believe; they often are angry that one may learn to overcome; they threaten
to disinherit to try whether one is able not to fear temporal loss; they caress
with exquisite allurements to see if one cannot be softened by the inducement
of various pleasures. You are being exercised, O virgin, whilst you are being
urged. And the anxious entreaties of your parents are your first battles.
Conquer your affection first, O maiden. If you conquer your home, you conquer the
world.
64. But suppose that the loss of your patrimony awaits you; are not the
future realms of heaven a compensation for perishable and frail possessions? For
if we believe the heavenly message, "there is no one who has forsaken house, or
parents, or brethren, or wife, or children, for the kingdom of God's sake, who
shall not receive sevenfold more in this present time, and in the world to
come shall have everlasting life."(1) Entrust your faith to God, who entrust your
money to man; lend to Christ. The faithful keeper of the deposit of your hope
pays the talent of your faith with manifold interest. The Truth does not
deceive, Justice does not circumvent, Virtue does not deceive. But if you believe not
God's word, at least believe instances.
65. Within my memory a girl once noble in the world, now more noble in the
sight of God, being urged to a marriage by her parents and kinsfolk, took
refuge at the holy altar. Whither could a virgin better flee, than thither where
the Virgin Sacrifice is offered? Nor was even that the limit of her boldness.
She, the oblation of modesty, the victim of chastity, was standing at the altar of
God, now placing upon her head the right hand of the priest, asking his
prayers, and now impatient at the righteous delay, placing the top of her head under
the altar. "Can any better veil," she said, "cover me better than the altar
which consecrates the veils themselves? Such a bridal veil is most suitable on
which Christ, the Head of all, is daily consecrated. What are you doing, my
kinsfolk? Why do you still trouble my mind with seeking marriage ? I have long since
provided for that. Do you offer me a bridegroom? I have found a better. Make
the most you can of my wealth, boast of his nobility, extol his power, I have Him
with Whom no one can compare himself, rich in the world, powerful in empire,
noble in heaven. If you have such an one, I do not reject the choice; if you do
not find such, you do me not a kindness, my relatives, but an injury."
66. When the others were silent, one burst forth somewhat roughly: "If,"
he said, "your father were alive, would he suffer you to remain unmarried?" Then
she replied with more religion and more restrained piety: "And perchance he is
gone that no one may be able to hinder me. Which answer concerning her father,
but warning as to himself, he made good by his own speedy death. So the
others, each of them, fearing the same for himself, began to assist and not to hinder
her as before, and her virginity involved not the loss of the property due to
her, but also received the reward of her integrity. You see, maidens, the
reward of devotion, and do you, parents, be warned by the example of transgression.